Why do we always blame the men?

Question

I always see questions stating that most men are asses, cheating on their girlfriends or wives, that they treat their partners bad etc when thats not really the case if we are honest with ourselves is it? They usually coome home from work to listen to their partner whinge about the day they have had, or bitching about some other woman, accusing their partners of all sorts of things, knowin that its just their own mind playing games because theyknow hes been to work all day, it just ends in a row, then we moan more saying theyve come home in a mood from work, when in reality all they probably want from us is a nice welcome and a huge snog!
Why are we so arguementative, why cant we just lay off them and let them relax!?
We are always quick to slag them off on Yahoo answers when really its us women.

Sorry...I forgot to say im female!!

Im not saying women are totally to blame, but we do have a knack of winding men up for no real reason.

Answer 1

Wow, I hate being grouped into WE! For me personally I don't whine about my day. And for you to proclaim it is US women, well, I don't fit into the US category! . I think it is wrong to group all women in the category of men bashing, I don't think that is fair, not all of us men bash without justified provocation! Thanks for the 2 pts!

Answer 2

Are you trying to come across as the perfect woman? Well I don't buy it love, are you telling us you never get stroppy or feel insecure from time to time

Firstly, a lot of the moaning and whinging and insecurity comes from the fact that a lot of the women are very young on here and haven't got to the point that they are confident in their own skin.

Personally, from what you describe, I've known a lot of men like that.... you don't think men whinge and moan or get insecure about a male friend at work? What planet are you living on?

I couldn't imagine being in a relationship where what you describe takes place... that wouldn't make me happy and I'm guessing it wouldn't make the man happy either...yes I do expect the odd argument now and again, we all get stroppy when we're tired or had a bad day at work, but that's fine and after all, making up is so much fun, but the good should outweigh the bad by a mile.

I will agree and say most women have unrealistic expectations of men, me on the other hand my expectations are fairly low and that way most men exceed them! lol.

Answer 3

As a relationship psychologist, i'm continually encountering circumstances the place there's a concern with a relationship - And 9 circumstances out of 10, the guy is blamed. yet in actuality, the two events have carried out some thing to injury their bond, and whether between the companions has been untrue - you would be taken aback to locate that there is a reason, and it is composed of their companion. i think of guys are transforming into a undesirable popularity in relationships, via fact they are greater outwardly sexual.. much less 'romantic and open', and characteristic on no account been given of venture at being the guy who brings sensitivity or kindess into the relationship. the girl is seen via fact the comfortable, worrying part - the guy being the hardworking, direct part. And in todays society, I often locate women human beings carry such severe standards for men that those exchange into unrealistic, and without warning issues upward push up. presently a learn replaced into carried out surrounding this, and romantic movies would desire to be the reason! Becuase movies and television depict those suited, problemless relationships.. it rather is elementary to forget approximately, relationships take artwork on the two factors.

Answer 4

I highly doubt that you're a female.

And what about when I come home from work after a long stressed out day and crappy commute? I'm exhausted and don't want some loser that makes half as much as me and works 40 miles closer to home think that I have to prepare the meal because I am the female!! What if I want to unwind with a nice hot shower and then have him pleasure me?? I'm the one bringing home more "bacon" and spending more of my time on work related activities.

This is a true experience from my most recent relationship which is now OVER.

In today's society, men are rarely the sole financial providers. As such, ALL household responsibilities should be shared equally/proprotionately. If I'm paying the car note, insurance and maintenance fees, then why shouldn't he wash and vacuum the cars and change the oil. It's about balanced give and take -- you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours, you lick my *****, I'll lick your ****. It's only fair.

Answer 5

Women always like to *****
Women always want to be the victime
Women always want to be right
Women always want to be miserable
Women sometimes are the cause of their own misery and then wonder why guys cheat or leave them
Its easy to blame everyone else and believe your the victim queen just hope people dont grow old and alone like that

Answer 6

I love my husband very much but he is still a man and still screws things up such as not taking out the trash and it's nice to be able to vent on Yahoo.

Answer 7

Are you married? o_o Honestly? ...and do you have hormones? Are they functioning properly?

It's usually PMS that does the trick. When you finally get rid of PMS, then menopause comes around. Which is worse.

If they cheat it's their fault. If they drink it's their fault. We don't drive them to do it. They do it out of their own stupidity. I don't see why you're making it sound like it is! Weird...

Answer 8

The road goes both ways, it's not just a man's fault and it's not just the woman's fault.
So, I don't know where you are coming with the 'it's us women' scenario.

Answer 9

Maybe if your man had had an affair you will know why. Cos mine did and it aint that easy to forget.

Answer 10

its time pass for some here