i cant stop cheating.in every relationship i have i cheat i have been faithful but neva through the whole relationship.what can i do to stop cheating?i really want to stop.any suggestions?
2006-08-18 13:43:58 · 29 answers · asked by star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's a good suggestion....find the right guy. Obviously you haven't found that special guy that you aren't willing to lose. First of all, don't be so hard on yourself, there's no ring on your finger! They call it dating, so you can date and find out what qualities you want in a man. You just haven't found a guy with all the right qualities. Believe me, when you are involved with someone and truly fall in love, you will not want to risk the relationship. My husband is the only guy I truly never cheated on, the rest were fair game. Right guy plus ring equals no cheating.
2006-08-18 13:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are young you are supposed to date different people so that you can make an informed decision when it's time to pick a husband. If you stay in a relationship when you'd rather be with someone else you are overriding your innate need to "shop before you buy"
You are doing what you are supposed to do ALMOST. When you want to see someone else, the kind way to go about it is to break up with the current guy first.
2006-08-18 13:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
W3ll i c4nt s4y 3x4ctly wh4t 2 do but th3 b3st is 2 stop ur s3lf b3 4 th3 guy ur with g3ts hurt cuz th3n its so much dr4m4. b33n dur dun d4t. Just try 2 c if u could kiss him in a public place and if ur looking @ other guys while kissing him th3n h3s not right 4 u.
2006-08-18 14:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Briana P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well congratulations. You admitted you have a problem.
You can do one of two things:
1) Seek therapy, some people have deep rooted reasons that cause them to behave this way
or
2) Never commit to a relationship. Some people are just promiscous by nature and remain that way forever.
Good luck.
2006-08-18 14:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think about why you've been cheating in the first place. cheating on people isn't an addiction, it's a problem you have. if you're not into the guys you're dating, then break up with them asap! if it's something else, then talk to someone because commitment issues or other issues are not something that can be solved on yahoo.
2006-08-18 13:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by emilyy40193x3babe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop searching for love with your vagina close your legs and open your mind and ears may the guys you are in a relationship is not that interesting and you are looking for more then what they have to offer at this rate you gonna f u c k the world be careful there are STD'S out there
2006-08-18 13:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What comes around goes around. You will meet a man one day that you will fall in love with and he will cheat on you and how would that make you feel? If you can't be devoted to anyone, you should not be in a relationship...
2006-08-18 13:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
might be an addiction or maybe you need a dose of your on medicine getting caught on cheaters might do the trick, but seriously if you feel you cant stop dont do relationships just date then it isnt cheating
2006-08-18 13:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but just dont do it. If you're unhappy with the relationship then end it first. If you feel like you can't "not do it", then maybe it would be good to see a counselor?
2006-08-18 13:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by SpeedyTV.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you cheat that means that thats not the right person 4 u when you find the one youll stop...
2006-08-18 13:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋