Why when I tell my lover I miss him does he laugh at me? What is this? Am I sounding stupid? Is he shy? Tell me what it is?
2006-08-18 13:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think a lot of men can have an emotion and then verbalize it immediately like women can. When they have a moment where they don't know how to respond, instead of doing the smart thing and less hurtful thing like say " thanks babe" or even more "I miss you too" (what harm is there in that???), they pretend they didn't hear or make some stupid noise like a laugh. Let him know what type of response you're looking for but don't beg for a reaction because it will make you appear pathetic or needy (or god forbid both!!). He clearly doesn't know what to say or what you're looking for. Maybe he feels pressure when you say it so laugh it off and tell him what you really want and make it sexy, that's what he's looking for.
2006-08-18 13:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by chrissheather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him there are lots of reasons why he is laughing
1) He doesn't know how to tell you how he is feeling
2) He doesn't feel for you the way you feel for him
3) He cheating on you and thinks its funny that you are all over him
4) He isn't really laughing you are just hallucinating
The only thing you can do is to ask him!!!!! If he doesn't give you a straight answer are tries to change the subject then the answer is listed above
2006-08-18 20:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called having dominion over somebody and of course this is a pleasurable state. Try waiting till he tells you and see what I am saying is the truth.
2006-08-18 20:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man laughs when I dress up, theirs nothing wrong with that.Usually they don't know how to tell you what they feel.Worry when you know your doing something stupid.
2006-08-18 20:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your telling a man that you miss him and he laughs in your face he is totally disrespecting you, it's like he spit in your face. Get a man who will appreciate you not someone who is going to treat you like crap....
2006-08-18 20:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
I don't think you're stupid. He may be nervous. Perhaps he feels uncomfortable with your affection. He may not be used to it.
2006-08-18 20:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by اري 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just doesn't understand how you can miss him when you see him so often. guys are so weird like that. they aren't like us girls are. they don't need to see you all the time like we do them.
2006-08-18 20:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is stupid beware
2006-08-18 20:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best person to get this answer from is him, ask him, its that simple.
2006-08-18 20:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am laughing at this question...
2006-08-18 20:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋