I don't see tha pleasure in sex? Um..i don't see how putting the male oegan up the female organ is pleasurable.i'm 22 still a virigin. It sounds painful 2 me.
2006-08-18 13:31:58 · 46 answers · asked by Schnice 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
what you talking about willis
2006-08-25 01:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
With the right guy who you are connected with, sex is awesome. There is nothing like an organism with someone you love. Moreover, there is more than vaginal sex. There is oral and anal as well with are equally pleasurable and a must for any guy I am with. I highly recommend you surf the web and purchase a dido, a vibrator (Mr. Rabbit is Great), and some pornos to teach yourself, because honey you are going to be lost and a little repressed. It is admirable that you are still a virgin, but you should still educate yourself a little. It will banish any fears you have and might really turn you on. Have fun!!!
2006-08-18 13:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend a little more time in the shower or something. You should be able to figure out what feels good.
Also after checking with your doc to make sure you're OK, look into some counseling. I say that only because it sounds like you may possibly have some fear issues and fear is the biggest killer of pleasure. I hope you find the answers to your questions. Good luck.
2006-08-18 13:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it can be painful and pleasureable but with the way the world is nowadays, all sexed-out -AIDS-STDs-DL dudes, you will honor yourself more, as you already are, by waiting until you either get married or meet a guy who loves you. And you will know if he loves you because the sex won't be an issue, just being around you will be enough for him. I feel like a father saying this, I'm a whole decade stronger, but I am proud you. Peace...
2006-08-26 07:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by the_ahriginal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young, and a virgin, however, once you find someone you love your feelings will change. The first time is sort of painful for a woman. The man breaks your hymen, and you can bleed a little bit. Sharing your body with someone you love is a gift. You'll end up realizing this once you find the right one. Good luck, and take your time ~
2006-08-18 13:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is painful honey. Poor thing. There will be a time when you feel different. It's different for everyone. My gf was a virgin just like you... and it hurt her the first few times... so i took it real slow, showed her all about her body and what it can do... and now she won't leave me alone. We're having crazy mad sex all the time in all different places and positions... last night she asked me to take her from behind, and she went nuts! Orgasmed like 4 times... true story. So, explore your body, and see what feels good to you!
2006-08-18 13:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready to have sex you will see and feel the pleasure. Its very pleasurable to have an orgasm and more intimate when its with someone you love and care for. You will crave sex when you find mr. right. Since you are a virgin you will need someone understanding and caring so just wait patiently.
2006-08-18 13:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, its a very pleasurable, sensual experience when shared with the right person.i am proud you are still a virgin, don't feel pressured to go out and have sex just to try it. Find a man who wants to share a life with you and then you can learn all about the pleasures of love together
2006-08-18 13:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you've fooled around on you own or with another you'd see how thats the case. If you've never used a tampon or anything liek that then for a woman the first time may be painful but after that then it would feel good.
2006-08-18 13:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be painful at first for the woman. After a while, though, I'm told it feels great. I think women even get more intense feelings of pleasure then men do.
2006-08-18 13:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Schnice, you are aging very rapidly. You were only 20 when you asked the EXACT SAME QUESTION three months ago. Now you are 22.
If a woman will lie about her age, she will also lie about whether or not she is a virgin.
Personally, I think that you are pulling our legs, and I wish that you would stop.
2006-08-18 13:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋