well I have dated both and had sex with both but I want to commit to the one who I known all my life but I begin to have feelings with the girl I just meet, she is great and loves the same things I do, and with the one that is basically the girl next door, well we have arguments, and fights but thats just us and we make up easily just like friends, I'm lost please help
2006-08-18 13:28:49 · 15 answers · asked by kenika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep lying to them and make a game out of it. It's fun. And if you get caught, there's plenty of pussy to go around, especially if you're hot like me.
2006-08-18 13:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bedroom Celebrity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend you do need help. if you have been with the girl next door nearly all your life & you row & make up like friends then if she is the one for you i dont think you would have even looked at the new girl. BUT the girl you just met is great & loves the same things as you do. then you seem fed up with the first girl. & with the second girl liking what you like she seems more compatable with you. SO just imagine there is a fire & both the girls are in the house BUT you only have time to save one girl . who would you pick to save.? BECAUSE that is the girl you should be with. SO say goodbye to the other girl & be faithful.
2006-08-18 20:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please regain your self-respect and step away before you hurt these people. You have to admit that you have at least not been able to concentrate, you have a lot to think about and a lot of growing up to do before you take any more of their time.
Please advise them they may need to be tested for STDs by first testing yourself. I beg this of you - you seem like a decent if mixed up guy.
It's natural and normal to want a variety of experiences - the person who has known you all your life is safe, comfortable, etc...while the new chick brings vibrancy and newness. This conflict means you are NOT ready to deal seriously with either of them and it is a great unkindness to do so. If you follow spiritual issues, the question that a Jew asks at Yom Kippur (among others) is: Have I dealt honestly with those in my life? At this point, you cannot say yes...but you can make amends by stepping back, practicing safe sex, and taking a break from passion and think about what really motivates you in another person to be your best self. Obviously neither of these gals is inspiring you to do that...it's not their job, it's yours.
Please please don't learn to be a liar. It's a terrible habit hard to break when you're older. It's okay to say "I don't know" or, "I have to think about that", or "That's not how I feel right now", or "I changed my mind". Be honest, and you'll be at peace. But start by making it right by these gals, who deserve better (as you know or you wouldn't have written). Best
2006-08-18 20:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are definately not ready to be in a relationship. If anything, you need to pick one, tell her the truth (because you'll be lying to her everyday you don't tell her), OR take some time off and then try to commit again. To someone else, no matter what, you'll be breaking whoever's heart. Any girl would be pissed to find out you never told them the truth. But if you can sound convincing about how much of a changed person you can be and not have sex with anyone else, then so be it.
2006-08-18 20:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by twolgt76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you really want to be with the girl next door. The only reason why you don't argue with the other girl is because you have just met and you haven't known each other long enough to get on each others nerves. Honestly i say go for it with the neighbor. Every relationship you will have argument. Its the getting threw them and still be able to be with each other. Sounds like you love her. Go for it!
2006-08-18 20:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by WildChild 0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a tough decision to make. Whatever you do, don't tell the one about the other (if thats at all possible), that will only cause trouble. No one here can tell you what to do. You are the only one who knows whats good for you. Best of luck to you :)
2006-08-18 20:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by onehot_mama23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to get to know them EVEN more. Ask about what you and her are going to do in the future.. Ask about future plans... personally i think that you would the best solution. Cause you don't want to marry someone who you will not meet from Monday to Friday and only see each other on Sat and Sun only don't you?
Ask more questions about them, ask more about what they want to do...
Then after of which compare, judge what will happen to you after you marry one, and ask yourself, will you stay committed till the end?
The answers are all with you...
If you have anything you can just msg me...
Cheers!
2006-08-18 20:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the girl next door because just because you have stuff in common now doesn't forever so go withe the next door girl.
2006-08-18 20:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by cooljamaciangal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both. They deserve someone who is going to treat them with respect. I hope they both find out about each other and leave you in their dust.
2006-08-18 20:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a decision. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you don't decide you will end up losing both of them.
2006-08-18 20:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋