How young is too young for you?

Question

I'm 16 years old and a junior in high school. I decided I wasn't going to date until I was all of the above. But I've also recently made the decision I'm pretty much not going to date anyone in high school for hygenic reasons, and the fact that a lot of them are still just too immature for anything even semi-serious.
So, my question is, how old are you, and what's the youngest you'd be willing to go to date?

No, I am not the FBI, or the police. I'm not looking to date you. I'm not looking to have sex.

And by "hygenic reasons", I don't know what you've interpreted it as, but it seems your minds are going to the wrong place. I was trying to subtly say that the high school boys I've met have a tendancy to smell like something you'd find in a dump.

Answer 1

I'm 21 and I won't date any one under 16. There are a lot of smart, pretty girls who have more on their brains than music and boys when they hit the 16 mark and that's all I'm looking for, some one with a brain; rather than just a one track mind bent on whatever seems popular. You sound like someone with a brain!

Answer 2

I started dating when I was 15, into my late sophomore in high school. Now I'm 16 and about to be a senior in september and I'm still dating the same hot guy. I think 14-17 are good ages to start dating, but only if one is mature enough to be in a relationship. It can be a real mental strain, whether its good or bad. Some guys are immature, but some are too mature. I know my boyfriend and I get immature and too mature at times, but it's all good. Don't just go out with someone because others are doing it or peer pressure. Date when you are ready and when you are really interested in another and you two want to be together. So consider for its a really big step. Take care and good luck! If you find someone, I pray that person treats you well. If not, then I hope you'll find someone that completes you eventually. Enjoy life!!

Answer 3

I am 48 and I think you are wise beyond your years. You probably are way too mature for any guy your age anyway. Dating doesn't have to involve sex, though, so if you like someone, go out and have fun. Just remember that what you have is too precious to give away to some immature idiot. Someday you will look back and be glad you waited. I was 20 years old and had been going with my boyfriend for almost a year before I lost my virginity. We eventually broke up, but I still have good memories of him and our relationship. I believe that the first time should be very very special because it's one that you will never forget, no matter how many men you have in your life after that.

Answer 4

I'm 29 and I'd say it depends on what your GOALS are, be clean and fair and honest, and remember your "wholesomeness" and think about what you wish to be offer someone of the opposite sex.... when I was younger sometimes my parents would drop me off at the movies and I'd meet a girl for a date, that was before I was 16(driving age)... I think I was a little too IMMATURE on some levels, I mean I "wanted" "relations"(kissing and such) at a young age and I think I "pushed the envelope" a little too hard... So I'd suggest waiting until your HEART tells you it is the right time... but what do I know, I'm sitting alone as a 29 year old man/boy...who has been waiting to see a woman for SIX years and well I do not even know if she wants to have anything to do with me, it is very lonely......I was able to do a lot of self-discovery while I have been waiting for the chance to see a PARTICULAR woman....but as I said it is very lonely.

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to be honest ~ I would have gone on a date in kindergarten or before, if someone asked me.....

Answer 5

I would never date a girl under 20. Usually they're too immature for what I want. Thats been my rule ever since I was 19. I mostly prefer not date a girl any age less than 3 years younger than me.

With that said though, if I were 15 or 16, I might want to date you if I could convince you my hygene is good :)

Answer 6

I am 28 years old right now, and I know you have probably heard this a million times but if I could change the things that I did in the past then I would do it in a heart beat. Just stick to your thinking and don't let anybody change your mind about anything. When I was your age I could admit I did some stupid things, but the things that I did I am seeing that kids that are 12 and up are starting those things. I understand the whole thing about peer pressure but just stick to your guns. There is nothing that you could not be in this world. Think about your dreams and your wishes. Then think about how those dreams and wishes could be torn down with just one obstacle. Believe it or not it only takes one big obstacle to get in the way. But don't date until you are really ready. I am married now and the guy I am married to is going to be 31. So there is about 2 1/2 years between us.

Answer 7

18

Answer 8

18

Answer 9

Unhygenic? That's a stupid reason. Who says you have to have sex with them if you date them? Dating is seeing someone, but that does not have to include sex. Beside that, why would you want anything serious so early in life? These aren't the people you're going to marry. Your early relationships are supposed to be fun, short-lived, and copious. Date as many people as you can so you can figure out what works for you. Dating also does not mean relationship. People with your attitude end up dating one person in their senior year or all through college and having absolutely no experience, marry, realise your mistake, then either have a miserable marriage, cheat, and/or divorce. I say get out there and go out with as many people as you can. You don't have to "put out" when you go out. It's good to learn what type of personality traits work for you. How miserable would your marriage be if you later realised you were a dominant personality and the one you married was also like that? Can you say conflict?

Answer 10

I'm 20, and I'm dating a 23 year old. i think three years is the perfect distance. Especially for a chick. Guys mature alot slower then chicks do (sorry guys) but its true. I wouldn't date younger. The youngest i would date would be around 21-22. probably no younger then 22 even.