i'm a 22 single female, sence i really dont have a "steady" partner sometimes i sit at home and watch pornos all by my self, when i do decide to have company and we watch it together and i go to my fav sence guys ask me how i know which one to go to when i tell them i watch it already they look at me and say i'm a frreak whats up with that? and is that a good thing or not?
2006-08-18 11:59:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell girl, i do the same!!! don't worry about those guys, they are obviously not adventurous. do you want to be with a guy who isn't adventurous? didn't think so!!
2006-08-18 12:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-24 01:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Roosevelt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, in my opinion, if you want to watch it with yourself that is fine, but to watch it with "company" or to openly let others know that you do, shows to others that you do not respect yourself by coming out and telling them this personal information. Having modesty about such a subject, shows people that you respect yourself. If you wanted to share this with your husband one day in the future, that would be fine, but to just anyone, is not showing any kind of self respect. If you want others to respect you, you must first respect yourself. I know what I am talking about. I use to be like this and it took my best friend (my husband) to help me understand that what I was doing was degrading myself in front of others. I changed the way I was and I feel that people respect me more and I definately respect myself more. You are a better person than that I am sure, so make others see that and see the difference you will feel about yourself as well as how others view you. You will notice how much taller you will stand, as a result, with pride. Don't make the mistake of just "throwing " yourself around to all these guys either as a result of not having a "steady" boyfriend. There is so much more to life than sex. I am 31 years old and I use to be going down the same road as you are now. Believe me when I say "you HAVE to be good for yourself before you can be good for someone else OR before someone will want to be good for you! Occupy yourself with school (Financial Aid, scholarships, PT jobs, etc. if you don't have the money, or you can talk to a local school about work study programs.) and make yourself better at taking care of yourself instead of depending on such other negative things to look toward in life. When you are NOT looking for someone good for you, you will trip over them and what a wonderful fall. Good Luck and please think about what I have wrote here. Best Wishes.
2006-08-18 12:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok, u were bored and u learn more by watchin other people having sex, besides it gives good feelin in your body. And if he thinks ur a freak oh well, maybe he is afriad of u cause u know more about sex then he does...lol
2006-08-18 12:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by lorhatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you single you must be very care full about this and i think some level not good. if same activity do married couple its good and ok
2006-08-18 12:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a good thing but it depends on how they say it .
2006-08-18 12:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats great..cause they know you will be open to doing things..such as threesums...girl on girl what ever..have you got my e mail..addy....damn give me a call...i am a major protein producer
2006-08-18 12:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine its just that they know you prob masterbate while watching it on that very couch your sitting on. thats prob why they look at you like that!
2006-08-18 12:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it good and i will be pleased if my girl watch porn with my will having sex
2006-08-18 12:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by HAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good. At least you can get some tips
2006-08-18 12:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋