O.K. my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 18 months almost and we are really close if you know what I mean and well he doesn't like me around guys and he says he trust me! We used to fight all the time but that has stoped! I still get scared that he is going to break up with me sometimes!! How do I get over this thing and What do I do!
2006-08-18 11:41:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm with the Devel Queen on this one...Adding only that time may change everything!
2006-08-18 11:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by M&T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dont want your around guys then he has a problem or someone did somthing wrong in the relationship or not but I hope he does really trust like he says and wht? that could lead up to serious problems in the future for you guys and some one can get hurt .But does he be around girl s look fair is fair .Why are you scared if you feel that in some what it could be true.
2006-08-18 18:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by summer35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the fact that he sais he trusts you, but still shows signs of not trusting you is making you nervous about the whole situation... And is making you not really trust him.. I know that might not of made sense. Hehe... You two should just trust each other, and you shouldnt worry, becaus ethats a sign of none trust.
2006-08-18 18:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him and tell him that u feel that uneasiness.. if he trusted you around guys then why would he say he doesnt want u hanging around them? it can b that you have done somthing in your past that made him not trust you.. if you have stopped fighting i think it is nothing that you should really worry about unless he's changed dramatically.. just talk to him .. see how he is feeling and explain to him how you are feeling.. so that way he can never say u hid things from him or u never talked to him
2006-08-18 18:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ĴỤiiČ¥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont its called a relationship n those things happen if he is gonna break up with u aint nothin u can do about it n not wantin u around otha guys just means he dont trust u and he is insecure. i say cut him loose n get a better guy
2006-08-18 18:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run in the opposite direction, if he is already telling you who you can and cannot talk to it is only going to get worse. A relationship is supposed to make you feel safe and secure not scared there is something that you aren't getting from him to make you feel safe.
2006-08-18 19:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by T S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you use the term "18 months" why not say 1.5 years ?? is it to make it seem you have been with him longer. you are just insecure thats why you think he is gonna leave you . so what if he does it will be his loss there are planty more fish in the sea
2006-08-18 18:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, you are free do not be just forhim you have to tell him your opinion & sharing about stuff things not jkust he tell you what todo then if he really loves you he will start to think to get merry from you. but if still not thinking think you have to find anotherone who likes you as you are.
2006-08-18 18:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him if u are scared. I have had the same relationship and i did what i told you and u should try it or uyou will get your heart broken.
2006-08-18 18:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by shelbowelbow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it just sounds like your boyfriend is just really scared of losing you if he doesnt like you around other guys. as far i i can see it seems like he feels if you talk to other boys you might like them more. just show your boyfriend that you are really with him and no one else!
2006-08-18 18:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋