There's this guy who works with me, and recenctly...for around 3 weeks ago,we got closer,like we started hanging out like friends and having fun. But the thing is that we got too much closer..like it's developin 2 more than friendship, i mean we chat on the net for at least 3 hours and sometimes more than 5 hours, we sms eachother almost all the time, and we hang out for a whole day just goofing and chilling. The truth is that we're both single, n i kinda started to think about him, especially that when we're together however he is like saying nice things and behaving that he is soooo into me, but today, something happened, he asked me: 'Would u like to step forward in this relationship? our cool friendship?' n i was like: 'Do u?' and he said: 'Nah! i believe that doing it soon is not right, let's carry on in this friendship n something might happen who knows?'
People... don't u think that he'd better give me a break? i mean duh! Shall i carry on or stop this chaos? what's da point?
2006-08-18 11:30:49 · 9 answers · asked by Hendrix_lover 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he just doesn't want to rush things, and would rather take it slowly. The rushed relationships usually turn into the ones that don't last. Try to just chill for awhile, and be content to be friends, and then take it from there. If it's meant to happen, then it will, and if it's not, then at least you'll have gotten a good friend out of it. Just relax and be patient, let nature take it's course. :)
2006-08-18 11:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably got scared and switched up his answer cause he thought you were going to say NO to him and that you probably just wanted to be friends with him. Talk to him and hear him out tell him what you think and go from there but don't give up cause there might be something there. Good luck
2006-08-18 18:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be happy with the friendship
2006-08-18 18:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whats right for you is the simple answer
2006-08-18 18:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by omnigomni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want a relationship then whatever...jsut enjoy the moments...
2006-08-18 18:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
2006-08-18 18:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say what the problem was
2006-08-18 18:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop this chaos.
2006-08-18 18:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down on him & he's YOURS!!!!
2006-08-18 18:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋