big girls and big people in general shouldn't be treated any differant than skinny people, big people are just the same. I hated it when I was younger kids would make fun of me all the time, now I still am big but now I'm exepted, and kids like me so they don't care that I'm big, but i just feel so bad for the other kids that aren't ( cool) or aren't popular and they get made fun of, so please tell me what' the point of making fun of big people?
2006-08-18 11:18:56 · 22 answers · asked by kara 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
because you treat your body physically and mentally with the way you feel about yourself. if you dont respect yourself then noone else around you will respect you. making yourself obese shows lack of respect for yourself, others catch that (weither its concious or subconcious) and they attack the person that is weak in respect for their bodys.
2006-08-18 11:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People make fun of others when their own self-esteem is lacking. Somehow it builds them up and makes them feel better about their own self when they can belittle, tease, or otherwise make fun of others for being overweight, having different color skin, having different religious beliefs, not being as smart...it really doesn't matter what they're making fun of. They'll find whatever they can to poke at so they can feel superior.
When you're a miserable person on the inside...you tend to make others miserable too, so you either don't feel as bad or you make certain everyone is miserable too.
Pathetic, huh?
I actually feel sorry for people who are mean to others.Can you imagine how hard it must be living in their skin?
I'm a big girl too...who wears glasses...and is really smart...and BOY did I get teased as a kid. Now that I'm a grown-up, I don't care what others think...it's their problem, ya know?
2006-08-18 18:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by rhubarb3142 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who make fun of others, big, small, ugly, cute, rich, poor, whatever, are just compensating for something that they are missing in their lives.
My wife is a big girl who is beautiful, but still worries about what people think. I've tried for years to get her to stop caring about what other people think, because worrying is misuse of the imagination.
As long as you are taking care of yourself and are happy with you, then who cares what other people think. Don't waste your precious time on it.
For the person whose answer was that there was something wrong with her because she was big and she should read some religious propaganda, you are a freaking wacko. Just because you got brainwashed, don't try to get other people to drink your Kool-aide.
2006-08-18 18:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by bigggmatt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just ignorant and look for any reason to make fun of other people.
I feel sorry for them. Because I don't believe people like that have much love or respect for themselves deep down inside.
2006-08-18 18:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by tina m 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand it. Everyone has the same capacity to be effective unless their size is a debilitating factor. I am not a big guy. But I sure have enjoyed some wonderful times with ladies who were big and small!
2006-08-18 18:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when someone makes fun of somebody else because of a physical factor, it only shows how insecure is that person that he has to make fun of others just to make himself feel better....
It's people that need to feel "greater" by "degrading" people...
I feel sorry for them...
2006-08-18 18:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats how i was in middle school
kids are cruel. They think it makes them more popular and all the other kids that want to be popular just follow them. I hated it too.
2006-08-18 18:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because from generation to generation parents, neighbors, or even strangers teach kids about tht fat people are ugly, too fat, or just they are so big that we should make a clown out of them. it is called ignorance.
2006-08-18 18:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not mean to big girls. I am mean to small girls. The little ratty ones with the pinched noses, little mouse eyes, cold hands and good grades. I pick on them.
2006-08-18 18:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Those types of people who make fun of "anything " have nothing better to do. ..called losers.
2006-08-18 18:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋