My friend is a HUGE music fan and i asked her if she would be interested in going to a concert (for interest sake: concert "a"). She said no because she wanted to use the money for a different concert (concert "b"). The reason why i want to give the tix to her is because she is the only other person i know that would want to see concert "a" with me. Would it be wrong to give her the tix to concert "a"
2006-08-18 11:16:01 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
the gift is for her b-day
2006-08-18 12:02:48 · update #1
Concert B is what she wants to see. Why don't you buy her a B ticket, and take somebody else to concert A?
2006-08-18 11:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by tonevault 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take someone else to concert A and get something else for your friend. If your friend doesn't appreciate a ticket to concert A, your feelings will be hurt.
Plus since you've already asked if she would like to go and she said "no", she'll wonder why you gave her the ticket anyway.
2006-08-18 11:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way your details are worded, I gather that she wants to see both concerts, but if she could only afford to go to one, she would choose concert B. Go ahead and give her the tix. Have fun!
2006-08-18 12:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by mdel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 13:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be happy with whatever she gets, after all... she could get nothing from you. And just ask her honestly, if she doesnt wanna go... find someone more appreciative or sell the tickets!!
2006-08-18 11:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being selfish. Spend the money on yourself outright and forget it.
2006-08-18 11:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her bday think of what she would want not want you would want ..... sounds kind rude to get tickets to the concert you want to see......
2006-08-18 13:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all - if money was the legit reason she should be pleasantly surprised - hope she wants to see it with you.
2006-08-18 11:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't someone things they don't like.
2006-08-19 00:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who are you thinking of here?
2006-08-18 11:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by class act 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋