My mom let me have an open house at my shore house with all my college friends last week. There was alot of girls and guys that showed up that I dident know. My mom know alot of my friends and was just hanging around drinking with us,,, she always does its not a big deal. Later that night I was walking through my back hallway and in one of the bedrooms I saw my mom getting with some guy i dident know. I just saw them like hooking up but ... its my mom! Should i say anything to her about this or just leave it go.. is that a big deal?
2006-08-18 11:15:20 · 15 answers · asked by kevin C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I would say something but it is up to you whether or not you do. I wouldn't want to be known as the girl with the mom that f**** everyone.
She should have more respect for you and for herself than that.
2006-08-18 17:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by girlfromflorida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously treating you like an adult by approving of a party and even joining it. She probably wants you to relax a little on the mother/daughter relationship that is so important when kids are young, and now is ready to be more of a friend, and obviously trusts you enough to be her friend too, not just a daughter. You are in college, so I suspect you are 19/20? I'd just leave it go, as you put it, and love her for the mom she is, and the friend she can be.
2006-08-18 18:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left a few things out, is mom married? If she is I would talk to her, if she isn't I would not worry about it.
Everyone should have a little fun now and then as long as she doesn't hurt anyone, I don't see the problem.
2006-08-18 18:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is an adult, she is mature enough to have relationships with other people. You should let her have her private life unless you want her in your private life. However, if it bothers you knowing that your mother has a private life, ask her not to party with you so that there will be no chance that you might accidentally intrude.
2006-08-19 05:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom's a big girl and able to take care of herself. As long as he was legal, butt out. Would you want your mom to say something to you if the situation was reversed? I say let her live her life, more power to her!!
2006-08-18 18:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Celesta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your mom goes out of town next time.
2006-08-18 18:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by jewpony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now that you are scarred for life. don't say anything about it. it was probably a one night stand anyway. if you think she would do it again, don't let her hang around when you have another party.
2006-08-18 18:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by SAChicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could express your feelings to your mom because you care about her well being but other than that, she is an adult and can make her own decisions!!
2006-08-18 18:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is a grown woman, she can do whatever she wants as long she is still not married to your father.
2006-08-18 18:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard man!
You may not need to confront her, but interrupt her. In this way, you will politely show her your displeasure.
2006-08-18 18:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by myname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋