Me and my friend who is also my ex have been good friends or together for almost 2yrs. I had some of the old feelings for her and she did too but it will never happen cuz her parents. Shes had a new b/f for almost 5 months now and we were still best friends over that time. I would txt her every morning to make her feel loved and when i stopped txting her she stopped talking to me. I stopped txting her cuz I felt like I needed to have a break from her to help lose the feling I had which didnt help that much lol. After 2 months of no talking I sent her a msg asking how are things, long time no talk, hows ur summer. She didnt respond to anything and i left it at that. No followup msg. Does she hate me? Is she mad at me? What do i do? Should I explain to her why I stopped talking to her? Would she listen if I tried to tell her? Should I say sry for not txting her nemore?
2006-08-18 10:58:52 · 12 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This i what i plan on saying to her...hey britt its been a long time. I havnt txt you or anything in a while cuz i felt like it was for the best at the time to let things settle and hopefully help get things back to normal. And if you were thinking i stopped cuz there was another girl thats not the reason at all, no girl made me stop cuz there was no girl it was just sometihng i thought might help. Im sry if it made you mad and well i figured if you were thinking of me or worried about me you have contacted me and that wasnt the case lol. Well give a call or something sometime cuz i would love to hear from you and talk to you about this.... and not saying anything to her isnt an option i want to say something to her cuz she means alot to me, id jump infront of a bullet or a moving car for her i care way to much for her...so is that msg good? should i change it?
2006-08-18 11:00:35 · update #1
probably neither she probably just doesn't care, sorry to say, don't try to explain unless she asks you can txt her "with are you mad at me?" Seriously straight out ask her, if no response to that then you got your answer leave her alone you don't want to be a stalker which txting every morning even with good intentions can be border line. She was probably relieved when you stopped.
2006-08-18 11:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be mad b/c you just stopped texting her for no reason, that she knew of, but I don't think she hates you. You still really like this girl Britt, so tell her exactly how you feel if you don't then you'll regret it later on!!!!! Yeah try to explain why you stopped talking to her, b/c I'm sure she's confused!!!!! If she won't listen then it's her loss! I hope everything works out with you two!!!!! Good luck!
2006-08-18 18:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She seems mad. I once had a guy tell me after 6 months of dating him that we were not technically a couple and he disappeared for a weekend. I broke up with him just for that. Afterwords, we were just friends but more. Still care for him even tho I am married to another. Tell her everything that you had up there and she should understand. If not I am very sorry. It seems like you care for her alot. Good Luck.
2006-08-18 18:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question was way too long. It sounds like she hates you. But you stopped text paging her first 'cause you wanted her to back off, you got your wish. Let her go.
2006-08-18 18:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Peace2All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y0U KN0W Y0U STiLL LiKE HER.
N MAYBE A LiTTLE MORE.
WHY DiD Y0U ST0P TALKiN T0 HER.
THAT WAS N0 REAS0N.
SHE JUST MAD AT Y0U.
TRY TALKiN T0 HER.
N SEE WHAT HAPPENS LATER
2006-08-18 18:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by lil_shortiie15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your message is great! she is just mad at you txt her more often, she loves it and don't be afraid to tell the truth, it ALWAYS makes girls feel better.
2006-08-18 18:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Caty the WEIRDO!!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that she hates you, she probably just thinks that you're a wanker and has gotten on with her life. Bigger and better things, if you know what I mean.
2006-08-18 18:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt that she's mad at you...she is probably just confused about everything...why all of a sudden you stopped texting her, etc.......remember some women tend to make mountains out of mole-hills. i am one of them.....just try to talk to her.
2006-08-18 18:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by DramaKid2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....you don't just think of this girl as your best friend -- you really care about her. You should tell her.
2006-08-18 18:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is mad
if you want her to talk to you again you have to explain and ask her to forgive you
2006-08-18 18:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋