ask his "rich" uncle for some help? Not as in please give us some money but for asking him for a job. My husband is the only one that works as I stay at home taking care of our baby. My husband and I have discussed me going back to work, but that's not going to happen since this is our first baby together.
2006-08-18 10:55:38 · 36 answers · asked by Ruth R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is not wrong at all. It is something that needs to be done. When you are married and have a family a parent has to do whatever it takes to take care of the family. Besides, like you said it yourself it is not like you are asking your husband's uncle for money, all you are asking for is a job where your husband will be paid for his services. Need not to worry, it is very important for a mother to be a part of the new baby's life. Take Care. Congrats on your baby.
2006-08-18 11:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Erika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really Depends on your relation and closeness to the rich uncle. As long as you are not asking for loans, and just if you can ask him to help him out with a better job if possible for him, and without going out of his way, then it should be fine.
2006-08-18 11:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by rickashe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean "encourage". As a mere suggestion it is probably ok, but many people might take it as an accusation that they cant do it on their own, that you dont think he is working hard enough, making enough. In short you may be attacking his self esteem. As far as the uncle, a job is a job.
2006-08-18 11:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Unknown Oscillator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with it, but understand that as a man he might not feel comfortable doing it. Its a matter of pride. Let the man keep his pride. He has a wife and family and has to ask another man to help him because he can't support them on his own. No matter what the situation is behind him not working, its hard to deal with. Suggest but don't stress the issue.
2006-08-18 11:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no family is suppose to be their in ur time in need. my father is always asked for a job and is willing to accept them on the terms that they work hard even though they had an advantage that he gave them the job and that they wont quit after 2 weeks because the job isnt wat they expected. if ur husbands uncle does give him a job make sure he gives a good impression and that he is willing to work hard
2006-08-18 11:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to suggest it, but I would not push him. I believe it is something that both you and your husband should decide. If your husband is against it, then he will be miserable going to work. I also think it is great that one of you is staying home to take care of your child. Frankly I think that money is overrated and it certainly does not gain you happiness.
2006-08-18 11:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Usagi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are "tapping dancing" around here for the "help" you want! If he needs another job then let him go out and get one and leave the "rich" uncle out of it. Don't try to schmooze, sweetie.....us "older" people are wiser than you think!
2006-08-18 11:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see that it would hurt to ask Uncle if he has a job going, but don't be resentful if he says no. He may have a good reason.
2006-08-18 11:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is definatly nothing wrong with asking his uncle for a job. He should be more than happy to offer him one.
2006-08-18 11:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by Happily Married 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋