2006-08-18 10:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay peoples. I forgot the details. i'm sort of new at this. I am 21 dating a 37 going on 38 year old guy. So obviously, so far i've been getting good feedback being older than 18.
2006-08-18 11:18:05 · update #1
21 is still pretty young, you still have a lot of changes ahead. How does he treat you - like an equal or a young'un that he has to educate? Do you view him as an equal? Do you have as much to offer in the relationship or will you feel indebted to him? Are you done with school? Will you still be able to pursue your dreams? What are your dreams? Will you miss hanging out with people your age?
Make sure you don't have him on a pedestal and you don't lose sight of your dreams to be with him. Age is just a number but you need to go into this with your eyes open. Good luck!
2006-08-18 12:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by m&m_manic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. First, I would definitely recommend that it be legal. Are you 18? You wouldn't want to get him in trouble. If you're 18, then I say go for it. My husband is 52 and I'm 36 and we have a fabulous marriage. I even dated a man who was 27 years older than me and it was a good relationship.
2006-08-18 17:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by beepbeepbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are 17 dating a 33 yr old man will be frowned on by everyone - if you are 37 it will be a lot different no one will even notice.
2006-08-18 17:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey, I mean it depends how old you are. If your in your 20s and he's in his 40s thats ok. As long as he respects you and doesn't take you for granted. As long as your happy and content with how you feel and if you feel happy and comftable, then you will be fine. Don't worry about it.
2006-08-18 17:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by candchotel18 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should it matter with age as long as he is good too you who cares.
2006-08-18 17:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it matters. Love is blind (you cant define or plan it).
2006-08-18 17:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by arb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong
2006-08-18 17:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by UnderstandingLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋