I love him and need to tell him?
2006-08-18 10:27:08 · 16 answers · asked by nikkisixxisdabomb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
elaborate please
2006-08-18 10:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by corwinnn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'm afraid I would have to disagree with Nicole P. If he breaks up with you because you lied or didn't like the real you, it doesn't necessarily make him a bad person, it just mean he gave you an honest reaction. A relationship starting off based on lies, is bound to not last. Plus, if your situation is an online relationship, can you really fault him for deciding to end things after something like this is revealed? Think about it, it's already hard to trust someone that you meet online, and then to have to deal with finding something like that out about the person you "love"? That's a very difficult thing to deal with. So, show him your real picture, and explain the situation to him, and if he does break up with you, then take it as a lesson learned, and don't make the same mistake in your next relationship. Learn to love yourself hon, and so will others. Hope things work out for ya! It'll be okay. :-)
2006-08-18 17:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is dishonest....good luck with him understanding. Trust is a BIG issue in any relationship. You might have just broken the bond girl. Why would you not show urself anyways? Are you that hideaus that he wouldnt be attracted? If so...then damn, maybe u can find someone as hideaus for you and not beautiful. I learned long ago, I could only keep the good looking ones if I spent the money on them. Finally I realised I am not going to be a slouch anymore and just get in my own playing field where it is a 2 way street and I dont have to feel pressured and used. Most hot girls with ugly guys USE THEM.
2006-08-18 17:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by No way man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean online? You show him pictures of yourself and they aren't you? I think I would tell him the truth. I would tell him that you feel really silly, don't offer to show him the real you unless he asks. I would tell him that you didn't expect to meet someone like him and you are the same person but now feel so terrible for what you have done. Chances are that he will still like the real you but be relieved that you are now being truthful with him
2006-08-18 17:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by animosus_liberatio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be upfront with someone...
Since you have not been telling him the truth...for how long??? How is he supposed to trust you...
You better just come out and tell him the truth..no easy way around it. Let him know you are tired of hurting him and you didn't plan on having feelings for him...
2006-08-18 17:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to elaborate upon the situation. Pictures? Guy? Without knowing more about you or what is going on, we can't really help you.
For instance most people on here are answering based on their own or others' assumptions, which may not help you at all since that may not be your situation.
2006-08-19 19:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by oblong127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are showing him pictures that are sopposed to be you, but arrent? thats not good. you got yourself stuck in a sticky spot. try sending a real picture of you. if he asks who that is say me. then explain to him that the other pictures were not you, and see what happens. if he breaks up with you because you lied, or he breaks up with you because he doesnt like the real you. then he wasnt worth it.
2006-08-18 17:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's the case tell him. if he "supposedly" loves you then that means he really doesn't love you at all, he loved the perception that you gave him. sorry to say, but you'll lose either way, and if you love the dude, like you say you do, there's no lieing. =/
2006-08-18 17:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sao_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hhe may that image of you stuck in his head. It may crush him to hear tghe truth.. but it HAS to be done. Just apologize a lot and hope for forgiveness
2006-08-18 17:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get it .. how can you love him and you have never met yet?? anyway, you have to tell him the truth. I hope that he will be understanding.
2006-08-18 17:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him. And you don't lie and keep secrets from the one you love..
2006-08-18 17:32:21 · answer #11 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋