my boyfreind cheated on me with my bestfreind,but
he dos not know that i know what should i do,sould i tell him or not?some one help me
2006-08-18 09:55:25 · 19 answers · asked by Cyairra H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I leave. thats it. No second chances, ne reprieve, nothing. You want revenge sleep with his Dad or friends or something, but dump that guy and get rid of your best friend, unless she felt guilty and told you that it happened. She you can forgive, him you can't.
2006-08-18 10:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your best friend first. A best friend is someone who is supposed to be there for you through your boyfriends. Find out what is going on. Tell her you are just trying to figure out what is going on and hold your emotions back because you are clearly upset and I guarantee you don't know the WHOLE truth. Then move on to the boyfriend. Your goal is to learn what happened. It may be simply that this guy is not really committed to you.. it was just one of those superficial girlfriend/boyfriend relationships that we have all had that never go anywhere. Yes they hurt. Better now than after a marriage, I promise you that! Then, when you know it all, be ready to move on from both of them. You know you will never be able to trust either of them again, but you will have the story and you can use this as a life lesson. Cry tonight, allow yourself to grieve, then go to bed. Wake up the next day realizing that you are alive, and you have a life to live that will one day end with a real man and a true friend that will never let you down. This was just a near miss. Don't make excuses for them. Don't take them back. Move on and be happy because you know you are worth more.
2006-08-18 10:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by starshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should Tell Him That You Know That He Cheated On You With Your Best Friend. Because I Bet He Has A Lot Of Gilt For Doing That To You And Doesnt Know If he Should Tell You Cause He's Afraid You Will Break Up With Him. So Just Tell HIm And See How Things Go from There....
2006-08-18 10:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by [rawr] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy 2 points. You kick his a$$ to the curb simple as that. People that really care for someone do not and wont ever treat them like that. He isn't worth your time and neither is your best friend. Best thing for you to do is confront them be as sweet as can be and say hey look hope your happy with each other and let me know when you two break up because youve cheated on each other as well. What goes around comes around! They will figure that out on their own.
2006-08-18 10:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him your relationship is OVER. And when he asks why (because he's going to act all shocked and deny everything), tell him what you know.
And as an aside, I would totally tear into the ***** he screwed - she's no friend of yours! Kick her butt out of your life too! You don't need that type of betrayal from the two people you were supposed to be able to trust the most!
2006-08-18 10:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey in case you've already got evidence he's dishonest ("So i imagine my bf is dishonest doing the web ingredient I do have evidence, yet he hides his "cookies" temp information which could hint what you're doing on-line.. ") why might want to you opt to proceed torturing your self searching for more effective info? merely kick him to the diminish noone advantages to be cheated on. i recognize its more effective common reported than executed because i'm constructive you want him, yet love your self more effective. No guy is ever properly worth your tears.
2016-11-26 00:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by pavoni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your best friend know that he is cheating on her with you?
If she doesn't, I suggest telling her so she knows...
Well u can hide it, and hope that it will play out-or u can tell him and tell him to give u a good explanation of why he cheated on you. Then you could dump him, or give him anthor chance.
There are many ways u can do it...But it's your heart and your lovelife....
Hope I could help! Good luck! :-)
2006-08-18 10:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shuld tell him then leave him. Dont reflect on past relationships cuz the new ones will never amount 2 n e thing if ur constantly living in the past.
2006-08-18 10:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for his actions. He is probably going to beg and plead about it once you confront him. DON'T TAKE HIM BACK. Even if you think it is a one time deal you will never be sure of him again. It isnt worth wasting your time.
2006-08-18 10:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by mjohnson2469 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to come off in a bad way but you may want to have yourself checked for STD's. then you may want to stick a 5 inch heal up his **** as you kick him out
Signed Tim
2006-08-18 10:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by ssshoebox67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋