My boyfriend has a friend that thinks it's ok to cheat on your girlfriend if you didn't put a ring on her finger. I think it's wrong. If your in a relationship you shouldn't cheat. I don't want my boyfriend getting this idea in his head and useing it. What do you think? Do you think it's right to cheat on your girlfriend just because you didn't give her a ring? Answer Honestly!
2006-08-18 09:42:48 · 30 answers · asked by Elena S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they haven't expressly stated that they're not going to see other people, then he's allowed to see other people. But if they've accepted that they will be in an exclusive relationship together, then yeah, that's cheating.
Long before my guy ever gave me a ring, long before he even said, "I love you", I knew I'd never date anyone else so long as we were together. Commitment happens in the heart and mind, not on a finger.
2006-08-18 09:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or It's never ok at ANY stage of a relationship to CHEAT on anyone. The word "cheat" is a strong word that means to be dishonest, to be sexually unfaithful, to defraud or swindle. Not too sure many people would want to deal with anyone who thinks this behavior is ok, and that would include wives/husbands, fiances, friends, co-workers, family members, oh.. and boyfriends too.
So being engaged is inconsequential and irrelevant, if a person engages in that kind of behavior i's completely wrong no matter the circumstance.
2006-08-18 16:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend thought that way then he wouldn't be my boyfriend for very long. The point of a relationship that could lead to the ring is commitment, and if you can't be bothered to respect the relationship before you're engaged, why would anyone want that ring from you?
2006-08-18 16:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been involved with someone for a while and have had sex, then i'd say no, it's not ok for a guy to cheat on his girlfriend before he gives her a ring.
2006-08-18 16:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by jamesdkral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell? That's the stupidest reasoning I have ever heard of. You don't have to be married to be commited. If he thinks it's ok, it's probably because he's been/has had thoughts of it or possible even has done it. So in his mind he justifies it by saying that no ring = cheating A OK!!
2006-08-18 16:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hiro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my eyes a relationship is only the foundations for marriage. It is clearly morally wrong to cheat on your partner from either side. If you are cheated on then this is a sign that this person is the wrong one for you. Plus if they have done it once they will do it again. Middle aged peoples cure to the problem? (Swingers Party's!)
2006-08-18 16:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend friend needs help and i advise you to tell your boyfriend to talk to him before your boyfriend get new ideas in his head. And if your boyfriend truly loves you the thought of cheating wouldn't cross his mind. I love my boyfriend truely i look at us as being married i wouldn't do anything to hurt him. Me and my boyfriend have a wedding date. But anyway cheating is cheating. If my boyfriend thought like that we wouldn't be together we'll just be on two different levels. And for me and my boyfriend we're on the same level.
2006-08-18 16:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by kelly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think such behavior is a direct reflection of your character and integrity...can you be trusted or not to do the right thing under pressure of stress or temptation...ring or no ring its about are you doing right or wrong.
2006-08-18 16:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,
I see "dating" as a form of an audition.
And what you do during your audition is most likely what you are going to do in the real thing.
Just break up a person who thinks its ok to cheat. Then they can do fiddle with whom ever they please.
2006-08-18 16:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by jason m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves and cares for you, he won't cheat. He would be pissed if you did. BTW, the ring is nothing more than a symbol of love and it won't stop him from cheating.
2006-08-18 16:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by FlaTiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋