do good guys always finish last? all my friends say that i am the nicest (yuk) person they have met but yet i can never make a relationship work. does nice equal boring?
2006-08-18 09:37:12 · 18 answers · asked by areyou_looking_atme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-18 09:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by pinko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes people say "nice" for lack of anything better (or mean) to say. If you really are a nice guy though, you will find yourself a nice girl. Most young people (and older sometimes) are more attracted to the guys a little rough around the edges. They will grow up. don't worry, there's someone out there for you.
try a dating web site. Have confidence in yourself. Later on in life all we want (us women that is) is someone who is stable and confident. Be that person they can trust.
good luck :)
2006-08-18 16:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by chica123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all it might sound lame to say this but u just havent met the right girl yet there are lots looking for a nice guy like urself. and it not just the good guys finishing last some times nice girls feel done over too haha ( me been one of them) so chin up sure they say there is someone out there for everyone we just have to find them.
2006-08-18 16:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does equal boring. Pretty much it equals non sexy and normally it equals a great deal of passive aggressiveness on the side of the "nice" person.
Most people aren't "nice" to be nice. They are nice because they want something in return.
2006-08-18 16:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by theprincesskgb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how old you are ,but in the main young girls go for the bad guy ,after a while they get fed up of being treated like crap,i can assure you mid 20's girls go for the nice guy,after all who wants to spend theyre life being treated like that! Hang in there darling,your turn will come ,dont change x
2006-08-18 16:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Pat R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes nice guys finish last....women usually like a "bad boy"...but not that bad...some nice guys do get the girl.....just don't be sooooo overly controlling...and always remember what is good for the goose is good for the gander...meaning u can't say i can do that but don't allow the chick to do that ...ok
2006-08-18 16:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nice is nice! Maybe ur shy? or 2 nice, its a fact that us women are a bit stupid when it comes to love...always got 4 the nasty men!
2006-08-18 16:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by splight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all! my bf is great, loving kind and the nicest guy ever! but you see im a very loud gobby, 'you ******* wat!?' i always get what i want sorta lass! so really oppisites attract you just need to find a girl which apprecaites you and who you can control, by control no way to i mean control her to do wat you want, but as in who you can calm down and stuff, kinda like when nikki off bb is havin a tantum and pete makes her chill out, uno? i hope iv explained myself ok, and nice guys are the best! jus make sure noone takes advange of your good nature, that all babe. good luck honey x
2006-08-18 16:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love nice guys, but with a little cheekiness, theres a difference between cheekiness and nasty, jst stay nice with little cheekiness and youll be fine... the girls that dump you just dont know what their missing.. im sure your a lovely guy and dont give up being nice..
men have the preconception that women like bad guys, but for most women thats not true, they want men who will love and cherish them, and pay compliments to them everyday.
2006-08-18 17:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was younger I always dated "bad lads"
I have married a "nice" man.
nice does NOT equal boring as long as you don't let someone walk all over you.
good luck
2006-08-18 17:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋