Iwe went through 'a lot' together, and grew stronger as a couple because of it, we lived together for 6years, before she walked out 1 day and never came back, without an explaination, i was in total shock...because she was that kind, we knew each other inside out. now im left feelin totally empty, and dead inside.... totally opposite of my former self....the thing is that seeing the way in which she changed so fast, scarred me and now i feel as though i cant even talk to her wen i see her on the street, recently, she came back to me to say that she wants me back, but ive changed so much now......and feel so devastatedly hurt....what should i do?
2006-08-18 09:36:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
depends upon how long she has been gone? If it has been like a year then forget it but if it was like a month or so then maybe think about it cause maybe she was going threw something. If that was the case she should be able to explain. If I were you maybe I would just take things slow and see what happened and where things might go just remember there is always the chance she will do it again especially if you don't find out why she did it. If you guys were best friends then maybe you should start just trying to rebuild that relationship before working on the romantic one. Who knows you might not even be into her romantically again. Good luck I know this is a tough one!
2006-08-18 09:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Knock Knock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for her then you'll never forget that you didn't take the time to hear her out, so do that, listen to what she has to say about why she walked out and why she wants to come back. If it sounds at all fishy, tail her and find out if she's seeing someone else, seriously, it sounds weird and perverted, but if she sounds like she's full of it, she's probably got someone esle and its not going how she'd like it to, and you're her fall back plan. If she has a good excuse and you care enough about her, and it sounds like you do, what the heck, get back together with her. But if she won't talk about it or has some lame as s excuse, drop it, she could just as well do it again in another 8 years, when you have kids. Good luck, stay true to you first, I feel for you
2006-08-18 16:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Hans B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly wants you back, forgive and forget. Be the best of friends as you were.
I hope everything works out, and GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-18 16:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry your girlfriend left you but even though it might be hard you need to move on and if its nessisary maybe see a depression theripist.
2006-08-18 16:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have dirty pig sex with her, then throw her clothes out the door and tell her to get stuffed.
2006-08-18 16:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by the_mojo_wire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. she must of found someone new and it didnt work out for her, so now she wants you back.
2006-08-18 16:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by mahs89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were convenience and that was all. She moved on or found something better
Move on
2006-08-18 16:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way, she had it and threw it away. you dont even know why.
i wouldnt take her back, no way in hell.
2006-08-18 16:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by digital genius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋