Bisexual or gay..?

Question

If a guy says he is bisexual, isn't it just a cover-up for being gay? Recently I heard my ex-boyfriend is bisexual, but he didn't tell me when we were together. Although I sort of got the feeling he wasn't quite straight...how can you tell if he likes guys more than girls?

Answer 1

Some gay men and women first come out as Bi because they are confused and trying to figure out who they are. But there are many people who are bisexual and like both and will always like both. Some people (including doctors) even believe that everyone is bisexual and society forces us to conform.

You can't tell if he or anyone else for that matter like one more than the other. Myself and other bisexuals go through periods of higher desire and attraction to one gender. I refer to this as 'women bent' or 'men bent'. This does not mean that the other gender isn't still open for us to date or be intimate with, but it is less desired than the other.

don't feel bad if he didn't come out with you. his sexuality has nothing to do with anyone but himself.

Answer 2

it rather is a tautology to point, as some do, that bisexuals can t be gay via fact gay skill in basic terms gay and bisexual doesn t. That s in basic terms bowing to social convention. Few if any bisexuals are 50-50. meaning they are on the whole yet no longer completely as we communicate or on the whole yet no longer completely gay. there is not any third way. regrettably, the definition of bisexual confuses many human beings via fact it is composed of the two between the above, which ends sounding contradictory, so such persons retreat into the tautology stated above. in actuality, many bisexuals are gay, in basic terms no longer completely so. Others are in actuality as we communicate, in basic terms no longer completely so. Such is the fluid nature of human sexuality. I m bi yet, considering that I lean gay, I have no concern calling myself gay, recognizing there may be activities the place it rather is suited to make clean replaced into precisely I recommend via gay. and because I m in a as we communicate relationship, such activities do upward push up. Cheers

Answer 3

When he pays more attention to other guys then u when u all were hanging out and if he sa ys a guys hot ,you'll know 4 sure that he is BISEXual

Answer 4

hy gay partners davey and steevie here hons we never thought that there was a thing as being bi- sexeaull e think its just a crock your right, i its just a big coverup for being gay here hons, we have been together for 5 years now and we are totally gay and commited in a solid gay rel;ationshipp and love each ither very much, etc, bring home a playgirl magazine and stuff it somewhere we you think he normally looks okay dont say anything too him, and remember exactly were you stuffedd it okay and if it gets moved while your gone, dont say a word too him you will have your fast anwser trust us like order it for the hell of it in the mail, lett him find itt and if he dosent sayy anything too you dosent get pissed off you have your anwsers okay, what you do with him after that is totally up too you okay good luck now hons buye bye now!!

Answer 5

He is what I call a sophmore in the school of skin flute playing technology. He is gay but likes you. I am sure the sex is infrequent but the shopping is a blast. I used to be in that school and now im a certified graduate. I still network with my school partner though. ;o) Isis that made me fall in the floor!! Damn you for one upping me!

Answer 6

You can tell by a small lump at the back of the neck of all bi-sexuals. Straight people don't have that bump.

Answer 7

Thats like saying I only halfway stole that money

Answer 8

usually Bis are more gay than straight

Answer 9

He is your ex, what's the point in knowing NOW. It doesn't make any sense, let it go.

Answer 10

Show him two pictures: one of a naked guy, and one of a naked girl. See how he reacts to each.