see him at the library everyday i sent him a note(anynmous)and told him to put it by my steps at my house and never did . . . wellp i wanna talk ta him and it seems when ever im there he always goes . . . and i wanna know how to approach him and talk to him and what to talk about he likes to play football and im not really into football my brother plays i play volleyball . . . ohh and im like not really in shape . . . when i sent the note i kinda gave him hints that it was me . . . but not alot . . . so can someone help me! PLEASE
2006-08-18 09:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by hOlLiStEr8hUnNeH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk up to him (when he is alone) and ask him about football anyway. Use stuff that your brother talks about. In fact ask your brother a few questions to get you started on a few pointers. You can kinda laugh and say that football looks interesting and you were just wondering about cause your brother plays but he's a brother and won't explain anything about it to you (or something like that) Let himknow you play volleyball and ask if he has every played that? Just general conversation.
2006-08-18 09:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should gather up the courage u need and talk to him. Or u can always leave a more obvious note. I hope things work out the way u want them.
2006-08-18 16:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by catfeet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN'T EXPECT TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL LIKE YOU DO. JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE SOMEONE, THEY DON'T OWE YOU ANYTHING. YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR FEELINGS. NO ONE ELSE WANTS THAT KIND OF RESPONSIBILITY.
IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN HIM, AND WISH TO GET SOME ATTENTION FROM HIM, THEN GIVE HIM ATTENTION AND SHOW YOUR INTEREST.
POINT OUT GOOD THINGS ABOUT HIM, TO HIM. COMPLIMENTS, ADMIRATION, RESPECT, AND APPRECIATION ARE THE BEST WAYS TO GET SOMEONE'S ATTENTION.
QUIT PLAYING THE STUPID GAMES WITH NOTES. YOU WILL ANNOY HIM. AND BESIDES, HE DOESN'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG WITH HIM, WHY CAN'T YOU JUST TALK TO HIM. HE DOESN'T KNOW YOUR GAMES OR HOW TO PLAY THEM.
BE MORE EXTROVERTED AND ASK HIM WHAT THE FOOTBALL RULES ARE. COMPLIMENT HIS THROW. ASK HIM TO SHOW YOU HOW TO PLAY (WITHOUT HURTING YOU, OF COURSE).
TELL HIM YOU THINK HE WOULD BE GOOD AT VOLLEYBALL, AND ASK HIM TO PLAY. SEE IF HE WANTS TO MEET YOU AT BORDERS AND CHECK OUT DVD'S AND CD'S. ASK HIM FOR HIS TAKE ON THIS OR THAT, OVER COFFEE AND SCONES....
2006-08-18 16:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make up some excuse. you said you see him in library right?
well then lets say he is looking at a book then just go up to him and say somthing like "i read that book and its really good." it gives you an excuse to talk to him and you might start a conversation. then you can get to know each other more.
ps--- dont try to do it to much or else it might seem creepy.
hope this helps!!!!
2006-08-18 16:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by K.J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know. Just start out with a simple "Hi" then say "whats up" just try to start a convestation. Thats the first step.
2006-08-18 16:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by cows go moo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know if I will help any, though I hope I can.
um. . . . . .thats tuff what your going through. . . I realy feel for ya. . . .I don't exactly know what to tell you. . .I kinda know how you feel, I like this one guy and he says he likes me but doesn't act like it. . . not realy what your going through. . .well, I will pray for you and hope it works out.
sorry I wasn't much help.
2006-08-18 16:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by choco-rill33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree. start with saying "hi" then "how was ur day" for example start a small conversation. then c what will happen
2006-08-18 16:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Girlsdream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack up your balls and talk to him
2006-08-18 16:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by kylito27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋