When you find out that a girl youve been with has 3 other guys in her life, or has just flat out cheated on you, and you thought you were their one and only man.
2006-08-18 09:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will dump her as and throw her to the curb
2006-08-18 10:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by 75 cent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may hurt, but this is how I live my life...
From the moment I meet you, I trust you. I will scratch your back and expect that you'll scratch mine. You'll be treated like gold and like a genuine friend, but as soon as you cross the line... well...
If a girl cheats on me or plays me (and it has happened), I just dump her on the spot and make her feel like ****. We are talking emotional degredation. She always cries (whether she means it or not) and that makes me feel pretty manly. It leaves me with an awkward smile on my face as I move my life toward my next lady.
I tend to forgive these girls down the road, but for a few weeks I just tell them I can't stand looking at them. Use phrases like "I'm not mad, I'm just disappointed."
"I thought we had something. It's almost as if I've been lied to."
"It's so frustrating seeing you like this."
"Best of luck with life. God bless."
Phrases that show you're a genuine guy, but she pissed you the hell off are sweet. You still care that she's successful and happy, but you don't care to be with her any more.
Some people might not agree, but it works for me!
2006-08-18 09:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by CWRUnerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend in a little on the situaitons Married and we have stated no outside activity (yes very hurtful). But if we are both single and have not discussed not dating anybody else etc...., then not nearly as much. It really depends on what level of trust we have established between us..
2006-08-18 10:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Miller S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in love right now, and i can tell you honestly that i would be utterly devastated if she told me that she was cheating. but it all depends on how she reveals it, or how she feels about it, if its no big deal to her, then i would feel used. but if she came back to me, truly sorry that she lost control, i would probably be able to forgive her
2006-08-18 09:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have had this happen... and at 1st I was mad, then it caused our break up...so then I was alone ...so in the long run, I would have been better off NOT saying anything...I would still be with the one girl who ' loved ' me for me, ( that is the one girl other then my wife , who died )
2006-08-18 09:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by mugzy4444 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I move on. I don't hold grudges. Better to know and move on to a nice chick than waste your time on a zero.
2006-08-18 09:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it pains you cause you did all that work to build up trust and relation ship and to have it broke so fast gets you muey mad.
2006-08-18 09:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mario Jump Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mind being used.use me all u want.it dont hurt
2006-08-18 09:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by turned on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋