ok, im 17, and i really like this girl, shes what i want, dont need to elaborate. the beef is shes christian and im an atheist. i dont see this as a problem to myself, i love to debate impartially, and refuse to judge people based on things like religion. the question here is: christian girls, do you usually have a problem (or would you) dating an atheist. also, christian parents, would you have a problem with it? i would appreciate any opinion.
2006-08-18 09:15:35 · 9 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have sex with her and then dumber by asking, "where's you god now?" Just kidding; I only wanted to end the day on a round 500 points.
2006-08-18 09:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by VTGunz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm an agnostic but I don't have a problem with my religious friends because they know I'm a good and moral person and because they are tolerant of my non-religion. If it were an issue, I couldn't be friendly with them. SO it's possible to date her.
However, for longer term relationships, it has to be spelled out in advance how things will proceed. For instance, before marrying and parenting, those things would need to be discussed and agreed upon. But for dating, give it a shot.
2006-08-18 16:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by BeamMeUpMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Christian and an atheist is like a donkey matched on the same joke with a cow.
It's rediculous to go into that type of relationship.
2006-08-18 16:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her and she likes you it shouldn't be a problem. I'm a christian and have been for a very long time, my last bf was an atheist, I loved him anyway. In the bible we are taught to love everyone and not to judge them, try to connect with her where she is, ask her about her faith and her life, tell her about you. grow together.
2006-08-18 16:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Kathleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you and the girl you like are ok with it then go for it. It has been done many a times. I say go for it and I give you my best wishes. For if you feelings are true then nothing will stop you and all things will work out for the greater good.
2006-08-18 16:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Practicality 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm just like the story of Romeo and Juliet, you dont have to be the same to be in love. If she is truley meant for you, it wont matter that you are Atheist. Luv/Kodi
2006-08-18 16:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can cause problems with the parents and it may not be a good idea...and she will probably want to raise her kids christain so if you dont have a problem with tha go for it
2006-08-18 16:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me i know i would mind dating someone of a different religion beleif than me but dating someone who doesnt beleive at all...i wouldnt...say things get serious how will you marry? if it's in church she wont think that you're taking it seriously...and what if you have kids, are you gonna tell the kids to not beleive? different religions have different approaches, that cna be worked around, but no beleif at all...nope, not fo rme
2006-08-18 16:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
good. maybe you'll be able to get it in her thick religious head that her "christianity" is based on pagan beliefs.
2006-08-18 16:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by crazy_pixie_dust 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋