My boss at work is a lot older than me but for a year & a half now I've found him sexually attractive. I just found out the other night at the pub that he has known I've had this thing for him for bout a year. I'm legal age BTW!
Anyway, at the time he had a girlfriend but cheated on her twice so they're not together anymore, so he is completely single now.
For ages now, he has been flirting with me & saying things to me. One example is one day I was buying some beer & he said, 'you gonna drink all that yourself or you gonna need someone like me to help you?' He says stuff like that all the time. When he sees me coming, he makes an excuse to go back so he can cross paths with me & he always looks into my eyes and does his cheeky grin. Once I told him I liked his shirt half untucked & every time i see him now, his shirt is half untucked!
What I want to know though is, does he like me and do his actions indicate that he would have a sexual affair with me? Or is it just an ego boost?
2006-08-18 08:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by RLJ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oops forgot to add he's leaving work in 8 weeks!!
2006-08-18 09:13:19 · update #1
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 16:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he does like you and probably would have a sexual affair with you. However, it is risky having a relationship like that with your boss. You have to worry about what happens when you no longer wish to carry on the affair, what he might do in terms of your employment there. Will he blackmail you? Fire you? Sexually harass you? Will you be able to handle the situation if it becomes uncomfortable when things are no longer the way they were even if he doesn't use his power or authority against you. You need to think about those things before you go screwing around with your boss. NEVER mix business with pleasure!!
2006-08-18 16:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you have to be careful with inter-office romance, espcially when it involves your boss because it's a sexual harassment lawsuit waiting to happen. He probably is into you because he likes having power over you. It's most likely an ego boost/power trip.
2006-08-18 16:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gets off on the idea that a young woman has a crush on him.
2006-08-18 16:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is actually a malignant narciccist, and a predator. read about them. They are dangerous womanizers.
2006-08-18 16:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just playing. As in, it's fun to flirt, but won't go further.
2006-08-18 16:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by Milana P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's only after one thing, go find a nice guy your own age.
2006-08-18 16:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should move on and find someone better.
2006-08-18 16:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by catfeet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes you all right he wants something from you not a relationship.
2006-08-18 16:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does a guy want to have sex with a girl?
Hmmm...
YES, IDIOT!
2006-08-18 16:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋