I'm with a guy I adore but I'm sure he's right for me but when we attempt to break-up I panic and stay with him.......HELP!!
2006-08-18 08:47:04 · 10 answers · asked by Sophia M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to let go but you must let go of the past to move on to the future. If you stay in a relationship just for companionship then you're not making yourself available for the person who may be your soul mate.
2006-08-18 08:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not good to stay just because you don't want to be alone. It's not healthy for you. You should go to the library and check out some books on building your self esteem. Because even though you are with somebody now you are still lonely because you are missing the most important person and your relationship. You are missing you until you feel good about you and feel like you can be alone you will always feel alone even with someone. As far as the guy goes don't feel sorry for him. what ever you do, do for you. It's time you start to focus on yourself.
2006-08-26 06:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just plain selfish. It's either if you love him or you don't. If you don't than just leave the guy alone. Surround yourself with family and friends if you're lonely. Keep looking for a person you prefer.
2006-08-18 15:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by kz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your attempting to leave each other,sounds to me that your not right for one another.you will both end up hating each other if your not careful.take a stand pack your things and get out of that situation.move in with friends or family till you can get yourself straight,get a place where you share.good luck!
2006-08-26 09:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't fair to you or him. Staying just because you are lonely is very selfish and you are stringing him along.
2006-08-18 15:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to tell him because you're just wasting your time and his, and just think that once it's done..it's done!! Tell him exactly that, you adore him but you want to start dating other people.
2006-08-18 15:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by TT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not because if the person finds out why you are in the relationship just because you don't want to be lonely you will be imbaressed
2006-08-18 15:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you adore him and think he is right for you, then what is with the attempt to brake up? if it is always shakey ground then move on.
2006-08-18 15:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. Don't do that,because then your limiting yourself to possiable relationships.
2006-08-18 16:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Amber E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you keep putting out
2006-08-26 15:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by rigpig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋