Alright... my b/f had a best friend that was a girl before we started dating. Once we did she started getting jealous. just recently my b/f and I got into a big fight and he started telling me he was unsure of us. So one night he was gunna come over but then at last minute told me he wasn't because he was tired. After a couple days I found out (not from him) that he went to this old friend. I confronted him and he said that he just wanted someone to talk. I was mad he didn't tell me. What do you think and should i just let it go?
2006-08-18 08:25:26 · 5 answers · asked by meangel15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
according to me ..very first think make him comfortable and and try to talk to him abt this topic but plz dont talk like gf just talk in such a soft that he must feel u r his good frd ,,,then ask him wat he want i mean ask him wheather is he really happy with ur and his relation ...and tell him to take some time to think abt it and dont make him pressure and tell him to say watever is he want to talk abt and at any topic let him speak wat his heart want to talk .....just be sure dont talk in pressureised way,,,then i m sure he will speak abt wat actual their in his heart
BUT plzzz before any talk dont creat or think in a negative or wrong way abt he and his frd ,,,cuz thoughts r only those which create problem between sweet relation
2006-08-20 19:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by zeba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be telling the truth,he might not.I think you should speak to this friend of his one on one and see what she is saying about the whole situation.In any event,whether best friend or not,you are his g/f and you should always have precedence.If you do not ,you might as well count your loses and move on with your life.
2006-08-18 15:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nearly impossible for a guy and a girl to be great frinds without one or the other having thoughts of it turning into something more. I think she wants him that's why shes jealous and maybe he wants her to.
2006-08-18 16:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by toomuchtime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, let go. He is in love with his friend and you will never come first because their relationship is longer.
2006-08-18 15:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by jewl_8098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So difficult. Just let it go. If ur bf love u, he should never do it again.
2006-08-20 12:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Panda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋