What do you do if u catch your b/f in a lie and he doesnt want to fess up to it?

Question

I found out that he is still talking to his ex-wife a couple of days ago. He says he only called like once or twice, but we havent talked in like 3 days b/c he said he cant be with somebody that is gonna spy on him. But 2day I got the bill which showed that he talked to her lik 3 times a day everyday. And we live 2gether.

Answer 1

Here's the deal: Either you trust him or you don't...PERIOD!

If you don't trust him than leave him (I'm looking for a new love {wink, wink})

If you trust him, apologise and leave him alone.

That's it, girly...nobody but Dr. Laura or Dr. Joy Brown could put it any smoother than that!

Answer 2

Thats the first thing a cheater does, Makes u feel guilty for raising concern. Tell him that if he wants to stay together he might wanna get his act together because you'll be out the door! He thinks he can do this,why is that?! He thinks ur not going anywhere, thats why he feels he can disrespect u like that. I would pack a bag and stay at a friends, dont tell him where ur going, and if things dont change, if he doesnt give u his word, and take some action.........hell he can be with the EX wife cause U can do better than a LIAR and a CHEATER!

Answer 3

i would tell him go back to his ex wife because i see he's not happy with me unless they have kids together and has to talk about them everyday i would tell him to get out because if there talking on the phone there doing other stuff that is his ex wife

Answer 4

Face it he still has baggage with the ex. does he have children with her? If so then he has to have contact. If he is covering up then you may have a problem. Were you with him before his divorce?

Answer 5

I would pack my bags and leave. He cant be with someone who spies because he has things to hide. Why do you need him to admit to it ? You have the proof and you know the truth.

Answer 6

get rid of his ***, hes lying to you it'll only get worse from here.