A strange thing happened to me yesterday evening...was on the commuter train with a friend of mine, and this girl at the other end of the car talking with some of her friends and she kept looking at me, not smiling or anything, we made eye contact like 4 times. Then the train was stopping at a station, she and her friends came closer to us to get off the train (my friend and I were standing across from the doors), and out of nowhere, before the girl leaves the train she wraps her arms around me and says "goodbye!!!" and before I had a chance to think, she was off the train grinning and the train doors closed.
Meanwhile my friend is standing there laughing lol....why are girls so damn confusing??
2006-08-18 08:16:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guys are saying I should have made a move, well partly I was too surprised to do so, and she moved pretty quick lol.
When I told another friend of mine about it, first he laughed his *** off, almost in tears, the *******, I think I had made his day, and then he said I should have hugged her back and kissed her, and/or pulled her back on the train and got her number.
But like I said, she moved pretty quick, and I almost didn't realize what was going on till she was off the train and grinning at me through the window, wasn't paying much attention lol
2006-08-18 08:28:19 · update #1
yeah I know I probably won't see her again lol, thats why I'm not worried a whole lot about it, it just confused the hell out of me :P
2006-08-18 08:29:36 · update #2
They aren't confusing unless you let them confuse you. She was immature and just playing around. Forgetaboutit hun and check out girls with brains if these types frustrate you.
2006-08-18 08:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't confusing they are just having fun. Maybe she told her group she thought you were cute and they bet her to give you a hug before she got off the train. No big deal. Guys usually will look to far into things girls do and say. That has been my experience with my guy friends. If a girl looks at them one time they think she wants them.
2006-08-18 08:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the eye contact was a clue for you to go and talk to her. Second, she huged you probably as a dare, but she liked you. That was her way of saying I like you too.
2006-08-18 08:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Corona S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say, that is weird. I could think of other things to do to let someone know I like them, besides giving a hug like if you were my brother or best friend.
2006-08-18 08:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Christian93 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wanted u to come talk to her,(hence the eye contact!) and u didnt, and most girls are NOT asking the guy out. It was her way of saying "thought u were hot, but oh well.............never will see u again"
2006-08-18 08:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not confusing we just love the rush of pure anticipation. Bet you can't wait to see her again huh?
2006-08-18 08:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she really liked you and wanted to get to know you she would have gave up her number.i just think that she was messing around with you. or felt sorry for you not having a girl friend
2006-08-18 08:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by inmate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we can be. When you see her again, go up to her and hug her and say "hello".
2006-08-18 08:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should of made ur move man.
2006-08-18 08:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's fun!
2006-08-18 08:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋