Theres this guy named RON but the problem is that i have had a boyfriend since i met RON. He knew it all along and didnt really care. Everytime I fight with my boyfriend I go and see him, but not because im a sl*t , but i really like RON. I have told him that i will leave my boyfriend for him and that I like him so much. HE always tells me that he doesnt want a girlfriend . I dont understand why because he lives all by himself and he looks so lonely. He treats me really good and takes me out to eat and everything. I feel like he likes me but not really because everytime i go over there all thats in his head is sex. My boyfriend found out about him and I ended it with RON and actually ended up in a fight with RON becuz he told me i was "drama". Then not even a month later RON messaged me again trying to talk 2 me. All he wants is sex but does he really feel something 4 me? i cant figure this guy out!!! IF i was so much "drama" then y does he waste his time w/ me ? he can get any girl!
2006-08-18 08:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by IITSMee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 16:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
G'day Iitsme,
Thanks for your question.
If you're still with your boyfriend and things are going OK, then I'd put Ron on hold for the time being. You don't need the drama.
If you are a free agent, I would go out with a coffee and see what he wants and whether it is consistent with what you want. It's OK if you are both unattached and both want to be friends with benefits but a relationship will struggle if both people want different things.
Best wishes to you all.
Regards
2006-08-18 08:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys want to play games with you just to see how far youre willing to go for them. if youre not interested in your current boyfriend then he has a right to know so you can quit wasting his time, someone else could treat him better, also ponder this if ron was in a relationship do you think he would be willing to risk his relationship for you...
2006-08-18 08:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by LILMAMA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that Ron knows which strings to pull to get you in his bed, but he doesn't want any commitment on his part.
Maybe he can get any girl, but I doubt he could keep her in the long term. Sex is very good, but only when there's other things between the couple, like friendship, comunication, commitment, and security.
If he only wants sex, if he'll take you, he'll probably get bored and search for a newer bedmate.
2006-08-18 08:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ron is like every other guy a pimp. And then what.
2006-08-18 08:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by B Rad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its obvious. he doesnt wanna date u, he wants to bang you
2006-08-18 08:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋