my girlfriend told her best friend that I am very "small". Apparently, they had a good laugh about it and now her friend wants to see me with my pants off. My girlfriend wants to show her, and they asked me if I would show my goods. I'm really embarrassed by this, what should I do?
2006-08-18 08:11:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to dump your girl because she has no respect for you
2006-08-18 08:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by shaki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U cant trust this girl. Are u willing to sacrifice ur dignity just to have a girlfriend, if she cant keep this a secret, she'll tell Everything else. Tell the bestfriend to get a man of her own, and stare at his package, ur so much better than that.
Find someone who respects ur privacy.
how would she like it if u told all ur friends her boobs were small or her butt was pimply, whatever her flaw might be, she wouldnt like it!
2006-08-18 15:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you consent to such humiliation, then you have no one to blame but yourself for any bad feelings you will have. If you have a thick skin and won't mind being teased by them, you could make your unveiling contingent upon both of them agreeing to have sex with you in a three-way. If you are able to orchestrate that and have a good time, I would dump the girlfriend because she sounds like a horrible person.
2006-08-18 15:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're having a laugh, at your expense. your girlfriend obviously does not respect you or your bodily parts, she doesnt love you as is. you've shown her your secret bits, and she's gone and blabbered about it to a friend and now they're openly joking about it. think, if you disagree, they'll go on about it, make an even bigger show and if you leave her, they'll try to embarrass you further.
If you walk away, at least her friend didnt get to 'have her laugh' and in this way, you've got your dignity in tact. get someone who respects you mate.
by the way, i used to date a doctor (the first person i had sex with) and he was shamefully teeny weeny itsy bitsy and a total prawn. i had a hard time 'feeling' him inside...he used to tell me 'dynamite comes in small packages' now that was funny. but still, no one is perfect, don't let them ridicule your tiny member, its a part of you so, love it.
2006-08-18 15:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to go open a can of vienna sausages and she will know exactly what it looks like. No need to embarass yourself like that for your girlfriends kicks (BTW---she's horrible for telling her friend and then laughing about it with her)..and just remember...its not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean.
2006-08-18 15:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't if its just gonna make them both laugh at you. she shouldn't be telling her friends that if it makes you feel that way she should have kept that between you and her. Do what you feel if your embarrassed dont cause its just gonna embarrass you even more. if you do you need to be like "YEAH IM SMALL BUT I KNOW HOW TO USE IT!!!" confidence man confidence! believe me there are dudes out there with small thinkin they are the ****! lol
2006-08-18 15:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by Andi21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend talks about you to her friends in that way and is trying to humiliate you, move on to someone who appreciates you, and NO don't show her your "goods" Don't give your girlfriend that satisfaction:) Good Luck!
2006-08-18 15:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by guccigirl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be. Not embarrased because of your little, microscopic and puny winkie, but because your nitwit girlfriend has spread the word to her pal about it.
I'll bet if you told your pals you had to tie a board to your butt while having sex with your girlfriend because she's so "big' would earn you a black eye from her.
Am I wrong? huh? Am I? Doubt it.
2006-08-18 15:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's some kind of gf you have. Pretty disrespectful of her to share that kind of information and then laugh with her friends. You might need to packup your "small" package and leave her @ss.
2006-08-18 15:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by greenejl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not a problem as i have some friends that want to see you naked too...lol
if she takes you up on the offer.....dump her or have some real fun
what do they say....it's not the motion of the ocean but the wind in the sail that gets you there.......it's not the nail but the hammer driving it.......etc, etc, etc.
ps-dont' let her get to you
2006-08-18 15:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by just my answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your gf said it was okay for her so called "bestfriend" to see your thing than she is not gf material and you need to find yourself a girl who will respect you no matter who is around. as for her "bestfriend" she's a loser and needs to get a life, so tell both to stick it were the sun dont shine, you need and deserve better!
2006-08-18 15:20:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋