ok now i have a new b/f and we have been going out for a 3 weeks now and he found out the his ex g/f that left is pregnant with his child and i kno he has to make a big desicision but i want him to make the right one cuz i care about him and i told him to get a DNA test cuz u will never kno if it is his r not cuz he need to get that first cuz of she cuz say anybody is the father and i want him to be happy so can anyone help me and him in this situation can i need help cuz i staying out of it cuz i think it is more to the story then wat he told me so i yet think it is cuz he says the baby is do in 3 months and she left this year something is wied can anyone help me but im not the one who is pregnant ok
2006-08-18 08:04:35 · 38 answers · asked by Tiffany W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
A DNA test!..
2006-08-26 07:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like big trouble for you. I think you're right--there's more to the story than what he's told you so far. A DNA test sounds like an excellent idea. If he is the father, he will at the very least have to pay child support until that child is either 18 years old or out of college. That's a LONG time! You've got only 3 weeks history with this guy, and if I were you, I'd get out of the situation right now.
2006-08-18 08:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by parachute 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yes,he really should have a dna done after the baby is born.Is he considering going back to his ex or what?Have you and him set down and talked about what is going to happen if the baby is his?A child is a big responsibility.Are you ready to help him take care of the baby when he has him/her with him?How do you feel about the situation?Is he even wanting to be a part of this childs life?There is alot that needs to be discussed between you and him and him and his ex.Im not really sure what you are wanting from us,but you guys need to start making some desicions instead of waiting until the last minute.good luck to all of you.
2006-08-18 08:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone isn't being 100% honest about the pregnancy. If the baby is due in 3 months, did she not tell him until recently? A DNA test is a good idea, but be prepared if you stay with this guy and the child is his, you will have to deal with the ex on a regular basis.
2006-08-18 08:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by wag35 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to use the word cuz so much it makes you sound dumb. Also if you have only been going out for 3 weeks then cut your losses and move on. Trust me a guy with a pregnant ex-girlfriend is going to cause you nothing but heart ache. You are obviously young and you don't need to be with a guy who has a baby. MOVE ON.
2006-08-18 08:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with the youth of today? Do they not realize that spelling their words like that are only going to hurt them in the future. It is one thing when you are sending a text message to save time and money. It is quite another when you are trying to express yourself and ask a question that may affect the rest of their lives. But no one can understand the question "cuz" they don't know how to spell out the words they are using, or how to use punctuation.
Yahoo Answers has a spell check option why don't people use it?
2006-08-18 08:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that it could be his, let him raise his child. The child deserves a father, and if no one else is claiming the baby, let him be the kind and loving father. It is unfair to grow up missing a parent. Let him know that you are supporting the child by letting him go. There are plenty of guys in the world for you to have a relationship w/. But there are also too many single parents as well.
2006-08-23 15:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Meg C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to think long and hard. This baby will be a major part of his life no matter what he dicides about it. Even if he don't want anything to do with it and DNA says it's his, his ex will be able to but in any time she wants/needs to. You need to decide if you want to be a part of his and this childs world not to mention the ex.
2006-08-24 16:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by K C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the baby is born. Since she will be a single mother, the girl will most likely be applying for a medical coupon or other welfare benefits for the baby. When she does they will ask who the father is. If she names him they will pursue him for child support. He can then contest it and the state will pay for a DNA test. If he is not the father, great, if he is, he better be prepared to pay for that baby for the rest of his life which is the price to be paid for having sex with a woman he had no intention of marrying and having a family with. Good luck with this one.
2006-08-18 08:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by cathcoug 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
paternaty test first. then, if it is his he needs to be apart of that baby's life. The real question here is do you really want to be in that kind of relationship where the other woman and kid are always interfering? And is he likely to go back to her? I'd distance yourself from him a little. Support him but give him his space so he can make the decisions hes sure to make eventually.
2006-08-25 17:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Hottestwallflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if of all I had trouble following you but I would say for him to get a DNA test as soon as the baby is born. Good Luck!
2006-08-21 06:52:36 · answer #11 · answered by bubbles26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋