OK well if you havent looked at my profile my previous msgs are all about my ex bf whom im back and forth with since january- we've known each other for a year...ok so 2 things major happened (i dont think they are) which he claims is the MAIN reason we arent together..we were at a bar with his sister/husband and there friends...they are all older 30's and im 22..ok so I got wasted and heard my then bf tell his bro in law "yeah the girl with all the money" i flipped out on him for who knows what reason and said well go be with her then- i dunno why i acted that way but i told him i'd make my ex bf come get me and i would drive home 6 hours with him cuz my bf is an ***...the next day i was obviously sorry..and then also i had a party and i got wasted again and was all over a few of my guy friends being really flirty and ignoring my bf...he claims these are the reasons...but my bf NEVER made me a priority and he didnt even tell me he'd been engaged until we'd been dating for 3 months.
2006-08-18 07:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop drinking, move on, and, above all, grow up!! Your behavior was embarrassing to him and, of course, to those who witnessed it. You do not love this guy, nor does he love you. You are together for convenience. Look for greener pastures.
Chow!!
2006-08-18 08:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are at different points of life. You want to have fun and he wants something more serious. Even though you two may like each other, a relationship can't work when both people want different things from it.
As for not telling you he'd been previously engaged until 3 months, that's not that long of a time. There are two types of people: the ones that talk constantly about old relationships, and the ones who never talk about them. The people that always talk about an ex get annoying, and it can be a blow to your ego to listen to how great some girl was.
Keep on having fun while you are young and don't have many responsibilities, and find a guy closer to your own age that wants to do the same thing. Leave the 30+ men alone until you are ready to settle down.
2006-08-18 08:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stop playing games. You're acting like a whore, he's smart to dump you. Sounds like you can't hold your alcohol either. I recommend a combination of things: don't drink as much, grow up and find someone who will give you lots of attention. It sounds like you felt neglected and that's why you behave that way. Try to figure out why you need so much attention from guys and never throw an ex-bf in someone's face. Good luck!
2006-08-18 08:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl with all the money what does that mean? Also if I would hang all over guys my b/f would leave me too.
2006-08-18 07:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what his reasons are--he doesn't want to go out with you anymore. people always feel obligated to explain themselves, however the reasons are insignificant, if the feelings aren't there then there is nothing left to hang onto.
2006-08-18 08:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems that you just didnt care about his feelings...you went all balistic on him then called your ex to come pick you up...and I dont think men really find a woman whos wasted really attractive..your nothing but a drunken flirt...tsk tsk
2006-08-18 08:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is leave this guy alone for good and forget him before you set yourself crazy men can give but can't take and that's why men do that
2006-08-18 08:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO MUCH WRITING AND TOO MUCH DRAMA. I DON'T FEEL LIKE READING ALL OF THAT. IF THAT HAS BEEN GOING ON WITH HIM FOR SO LONG WHY ARE YOU STILL BEING BOTHERED. STOP SWEATING HIM AND MOVE ON.
2006-08-18 07:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
stop flirting.
dont take **** personally when drunk
2006-08-18 07:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋