i have been dating this girl for over a 3 week now. i feel really attracted to her and we have kissed normally for a few secs every now and again. i really want to have sex with her and kiss her more passionately, but i dont want her to think i am interested in just 1 thing. we are both 20 and have been out a couple of times,but when i drop her home, she just gives me a 2 sec kiss and doesn't even invite me in, maybe coz she lives with her parents. so how can i tell her i want the relationship to move foward withour her thinking i just want to bed her ?
2006-08-18 07:26:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really like her and i dont want to lose her, by forcing myself on her
2006-08-18 07:33:06 · update #1
how about........ make your next step kissing longer... not having sex. It seems obvious to me too that all you want is sex. she is going to think the same thing. If you want to kiss her longer, do just that, but don't expect sex at all... What if she is waiting to get married or something? I'm sure she wants to know that you want her for her, and 3 weeks isn't long enough.... horny boys!
2006-08-18 07:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by deesjeeper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for not wanting just 1 thing and wanting more from this girl. Sometimes 3 weeks of dating is not enough time for girls to think you guys are ready to move to the next level, but if you really want to be with this girl then just tell her the same thing you wrote. kissing more passionately and wanting her
Good luck, i hope it works out for you.
2006-08-18 07:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to rush this relationship? You have only dated her for 3 weeks and you already want to have sex with her? What about getting to know her? Asking her what she likes or doesn't like?
If you like this girl, then give her time to get to know you better, if you rush into sex, what else will you have to look forward to? All will be done and over with! Respect her, and give her time!
If you are horny, you are old enough to know how to take care of yourself! The problem with young guys today is that they always want to rush into having sex! You guys need to realize that women need time and they want a man , not a guy! Men give women time!
Don't risk this relationship with your girlfriend if you care about her!
2006-08-18 07:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Nick's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow your roll, man. Three weeks doesn't qualify you for anything, let alone getting into bed with someone. Work on the friendship and the other stuff will take care of itself. If you find yourself having trouble in that area, go have a heart to heart talk with her father; he'll happily explain it to you.
2006-08-18 07:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably still trying to get to know the REAL you. It takes about 3 months to REALLY know someone. Sex just complicates the hell out of a relationship. Be patient and cherish these innocent moments.
2006-08-18 07:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by LifetimeLearner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be a virgin, if so it might take some more time for you to have sex with her. also you have only been going out for 3 weeks, there is no need to rush anything. take your time and tell her you really like her and whatever but DO NOT tell her you love her yet...it's way, way too soon for that.
2006-08-18 07:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So in case you're no longer drawn to premarital intercourse (which i stumble on admirable), how do you define the "next point." Are you asking how some distance you could pass without easily having intercourse? I say, do no longer muddy the waters, stick to what you're doing. in case you like one yet another, wait it out. yet for now, don't get distracted. I additionally does not agree that looking options to truly intercourse are beneficial. they do no longer decrease tensions, they strengthen them. previous responders gave you super suggestion besides on focusing on communications etc.
2016-09-29 10:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move to fast, that may push her away. If shes willing to let you kiss her then eventually she will want more as well. wait until you both are on mutual ground and make your move when you both are ready. Good Luck
2006-08-18 07:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by LILMAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u really like her and that u wanna get closer 2 her. tell her that ur not trfyin 2 play her cuz ur still around.
2006-08-18 07:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her over to your crib for food and a movie..and make your move then.
2006-08-18 07:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by daaeck2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋