Why are women so hard to open up to in relationships sometimes? Read Below I have a few details?

Question

Sometimes ladies telling you what I feel is down right scary. It turns into this heated argument, ladies your whole demanor changes, Tone of Voice, Eyes, Speech patterns. (Of coarse this isn't all women but alot of the ones I deal with. )

I'm not saying men are perfect but that is difficult to deal with and It's why I just keep alot of my lil emotions and thoughts to my self. So what can I do to try to communicate this to a girl without coming off like an Ahole?

Ne other guys see it this way sometimes

Answer 1

tell them in a nice way, if they get defensive just say " look there's no need to get defensive or angry, i'm just telling you where i'm coming from and want to communicate that to you" if they can't deal w/ that drop them, they're not very mature.

good luck hun ♥

Answer 2

Go get the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, You will get a better outlook on the difference and it won't bother you so much. We are a pain in the a s s. (but then again, so are you)

Answer 3

Maybe because they were hurt from previous relationships. We (women) don't like it when guys lie about how they are feeling in order to get what they want.

Give her some time, she just doesn't want to be hurt again.

Answer 4

well, I'm not sure what to tell you but I would love to applaud the fact that your trying to find a productive way to talk to your gal, and tell her whats on your mind! now that takes a REAL MAN!!! good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

well we wouldnt be women if we all thought the same...we all have different opinions...and us women we just flip out alot over stupid things

Answer 6

Maybe you should just let it all come out once. You'll probably find out it's not that bad......it might even feel good!

Answer 7

write it down in a letter and give them time to read and merinate over it