My wife ALWAYS says harder. When I say harder she means hard. If she is on top she grinds me so hard it hurts and if I am on top she makes me grap her but and hold her agaist me as tight as I can. How can this not hurt her but hurts me when she weighs 115lbs and I weigh 170lbs. I don't want to hurt her but she insists she loves it and it doesn't hurt. Is there anyone else in this situation that can explain it?
2006-08-18 07:09:46 · 33 answers · asked by sell insurance 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahahahahaa.... OMG... that is too funny! If she likes it that rough, me and her will get along great... Tell her to msg me!
2006-08-18 07:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If she hurts you, let her know that you are in some pain/discomfort (referring to her being on top). Though people who are 'gentle' might see this as abuse of some sort, the threshold of pain increases during sex. So chances are you really aren't hurting her, just pleasing her with pain. I know that if I say harder I mean H A R D! However, it's often a release for me to be reciving pain and pleasure. Its a fetish and some people have it some people dont. Don't worry about it, as long as she enjoys it, keep doing it.
2006-08-18 07:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im still trying to figure out what the problem is! Seriously, sounds like she must be quite the woman in bed. The physical pleasure of sex can overwhelm any other feelings, like pain. Couple of suggestions, perhaps if she orgasmed before you, then her demands for roughness wouldnt be as great. Have you ever had her orgasm through foreplay or oral, before intercourse? You may also introduce sex toys into your bedroom. You can give her the deep thrusting she wants without injuring yourself by using a large dildo.
2006-08-18 07:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and your wife have so much in common.
O.k well I also tell my husband to give it to me harder, and I mean hard. I can tell in his face that he also wonders if it doesn't hurt me, but he does it with no fear and I love it.
So what I'm saying is that you need to give it to her harder, if she asks for it give it to her, if it hurts she will say something. Another reason why I ask my husband to give it to me harder is because it doesn't hit me right on the spot when he doesn't give it to me hard. She might feel the same.
some people feel that the harder the more passion, talk to her during sex and ask her how she likes it, and repeat what she ask for and spank her while your back there.
Good luck lover boy.
2006-08-18 07:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes is the stimulation of your pelvic bone pressing against her clit. That is not uncommon. You need to pay attention to that area. I'm not sure it's appropriate to give you more detailed information than that, but you could look it up in a lot of sex manuals.
2014-06-25 13:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel flattered that you got her so hot she wants you to tear her to peices. I feel the same way with my husband and believe me, it doesn't hurt us...When we say that it's a total compliment. If it does hurt YOU, then just tell her although it's kind of hard to control ourselves during those times, though, so no promises that she'll be gentle. =)
2006-08-18 07:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about compromise.Sit her down and tell her that what she likes is just a little too rough for you and that your scared of hurting her.There are plenty of other ways that you can fulfill her needs without you being physically sore from it,as in toys and games etc.Good luck.
2006-08-18 07:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like what she likes is the stimulation of your pelvic bone pressing against her clit. That is not uncommon. You need to pay attention to that area. I'm not sure it's appropriate to give you more detailed information than that, but you could look it up in a lot of sex manuals.
2006-08-18 07:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it that she likes it hard or deep ? Her wanting you to hold her tight sounds to me like she is trying to get you in deep. That is a totally awesome feeling. Maybe what she wants is deep but thinks it has to be hard to get it deep. Show her otherwise and maybe she'll let up with hurting you.
2006-08-18 07:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some women can't get off until it hurts ! I have dated women that need to be pounded like that. So take turns top and bottom, I find that best !!
2006-08-18 07:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by jdfnv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you went from a boring sex life to a rough sex life in like a few hours...u go man
2006-08-18 07:16:23 · answer #11 · answered by KlrBluEys2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋