Hi. I've been with this "radical" guy for ova 2.5 yrs. Its been a rocky road & the whole thing has been off & on so far. The wierd thing is that he's never introduced me to his friends. Not formally at least. Sure, we've bumped into a few of them...but i dunno "know" them & they dun "know" me. As in i've never met them intentionally. They know about me but they don't "know me". Wats more...he's never met mine either. He doesn want to meet my frnds. Says that these "meet the friends" conversations make him feel awkward. This has been a bone of conention for all these years. Point being i know jus one frnd of his...that too cos he was looking out for a job & my bf asked him to call me up. We also have had other issues like his sulking afta a fight, his verbal & emotional abuse towards me etc.
Do you think his reason for keeping me away from his frnds is valid???
2006-08-18 07:06:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's way way too immature. You need to move on. Not meeting his friends or having your friends meet him is not normal, nor is it acceptable. His excuse about meeting friends making him feel awkward is so lame.You don't need a sulking baby, nor should you EVER be emotionally or verbally abused. Get rid of him - he's no good for you. MAYBE some day he'll grow up & get real but until he does you don't need him!!! Good luck - I hope you can move on & find someone decent who will treat you with the love & respect you need & deserve!!!
2006-08-18 07:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, two and a half years is sufficient time to set the tone and the boundaries of any relationship. The way your relationship now is not going to change much over time. Know that now and your life in general will be a lot easier.
Second, what do you want? Do you want to share your life with another person? Do you? Look around - you are not doing that now in your current relationship. Now, reread point one. Again, what do you want? Is this relationship fulfilling what you want out of a mate?
If not, then ...
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2006-08-18 07:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please! So your telling me that for the perfect 25 years you've only been going via existence desiring & longing for this guy? supply up playing teenage video games, & it really is what it really is about, you're searching back into the previous even as issues were so sparkling & new & even as love became so different & you're appearing on sheer impulse & imaturity, & do not take this as a insult because I dont mean it as one Im purely asserting this out of my personal personal journey, as I to had contact with a old boyfriend from before, & i recognize that in case you dont pay interest your thoughts & old thoughts can get interior the way of reality, so i tips that you enable this one flow, positioned this guy back on your back pocket & flow on with existence, supply up desiring what you dont have & relish what you do have!
2016-11-05 02:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds suspicious
2006-08-18 07:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by crabbygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is full of **** and most likely using you which is why he doesnt want to meet your friends or family. plus he treats you like ****- your best bet is to find a new boyfriend cuz he's not gonna change
2006-08-18 07:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by missammerica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is scared that you`ll leave him for one of his friends
2006-08-18 07:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats cause he's givin you hints sweety
2006-08-18 07:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by william_murtaugh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
2006-08-18 07:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by snehal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋