Alright me and this one female have been down for 2 years now. I mean she swears she loves me and all but, shes been gettin cool with someone else and tells me she feels strongly for him too she kno ima calm dude so i was like where do we stand like i dont know what to do. the thing is she a selfish person she doesnt want me to feel or get involved with anyone. Absolutly no friends but wants both me and him.
2006-08-18 06:59:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sounds controlling =\ i'd dump her if i were you, and move on to someone who will make you happy and someone who will be happy with you without having to control who you hang out with
2006-08-18 07:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by batman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt want you to have friends, and only her. dump her, No one should expirence that in a relationship. I wouldnt ever give up my friends for a guy. and if she has strong feelings for someone else, maybe she doesnt love you as much anymore.i say you should either talk to her face to face about it and tell her whats up. or get the hell outta there before you both get hurt :)
2006-08-18 14:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by STFUbeezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on,you can do so much better,yes she is selfish if she wants both of you and expects you to have no friends.Who ever your with should respect and accept you for who you are not try to control you,find someone else babe and be happy.
2006-08-18 14:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation you are in now recently..its better to leave her and move on because its wrong for her to be with you and another guy at the same time.. it will be hard for you at first but at least you will know that this person isnt the right one for you. just know that for being a loyal person you have greater things to come in the future. good luck man.
2006-08-18 14:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate_spoon16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takew it easy whats meant to be will be and everything happens for a reason. You need to do what makes you happy follow your heart man don't settle for less. If she wants to be with some one else I think she might not be right for you!
2006-08-18 14:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by dburk79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say get rid of her. Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Its like shes keeping you around just in case the other guy doesn't workout. People don't deserve that.
2006-08-18 14:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out of the relationship. She's being hypocitical about things. She can't cozy up to someone else and expect you to isolate yourself for her. If she's not willing to remain dedicated to you and you only, she doesn't love you.
2006-08-18 14:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by Risika Desaunt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does she mean when shw says she loves and at d same time feels strongly 4him.2yrs is quite a long time,so dnt let it end jlt.talk2 her.ask wat she really wants n if she cnt make up her mind i think u should move on.u realize a persons importance only once he/she is outa ur life,gve her smtime n if she makes up her mind fine or else js leave her alone.
2006-08-18 14:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by cutedevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta let her go...she is using you because she knows your so "calm" she cant have her cake and eat it too.
In the long run its better to get a female that wants YOU and ONLY you
2006-08-18 14:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by daaeck2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a control person. Run and run fast away from her.
2006-08-18 16:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by euin47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋