I want to go to the pub once in a while, even see my parents or sister, every time i want to go out, she makes a big deal out of it and i feel kind of trapped.... HELP!!!
2006-08-18 06:57:40 · 31 answers · asked by djvee_2k5 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
She's suffering from jealousy to the point of being really possessive. If she carries on, she'll lose you.
All I can say is have a word with her, and let her know how you feel. Tell her she'll have to trust you and give you abit of freedom.
As long as you give her the same respect that you think you deserve, then its her problem. She'll have to deal with it if you both want the relationship to survive.
2006-08-18 07:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she doesn't trust you. Perhaps she's afraid that rather than just seeing your parents or sister down the pub you'll be seeing other girls. Have you done anything (to her or in the past) which would make her feel distrustful?
If you really love her and want to make it work, you'll need to reassure her that she is the only girl for you, you're not going to be meeting anyone else or getting chatted up by/chatting up any other girls. And if you are just going to the pub to see your mates or family why can't she go with you??
2006-08-18 07:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason why she is like this? Have you lied to her or been unfaithful to her in the past? Either way just sit her down and reassure her that nothing is going to happen while you are away and go out anyway as you cant let her control you. Try to encourage her to go out with her friends or visit her family on her own so she might realise that you both need your own space even if you are a couple otherwise you will end up resenting her and the relationship is doomed.
2006-08-18 07:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by gp200dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be worried that she's not the centre of your life. Reassurre her that just because you want to get out once in a while, doesn't mean you care any less for her. I've seen this before, and it can split people up. Over-possessiveness is usually a sign of insecurity. Keep reassuring her you're not going out to get away from her, before she makes this come true.
2006-08-18 07:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, You could maybe take her with you, she cant be too bad for her not to go with you too meet your parents or sister, If you dont like to be out with her then get finish the relationship as you both could end up getting hurt,
2006-08-18 07:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not letting you or making a big issue with letting you see/kick it with YOUR family... then she's not a good girlfriend i mean i don't know how long u 2 have been together but she no good girlfriend should have an issue with you going to see ur family.
2006-08-18 07:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her....where is this going if she feels the need to control every aspect of your life. Obviously there is no trust in this relationship, on her part anyways. Do not worry I am sure you can find a nicer girl to be with.
2006-08-18 07:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by limeallure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the book, 'men are from mars and women are from venus'. She'll then understand you have to retreat into your cave and are attached by a rubber band. (or something like that lol)
2006-08-18 07:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to deal with it or move on, i encouage my hubby to go to the pub with his mates, if he was with me 24/7 we would have been divorced by now, everyone needs their own space
2006-08-18 07:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by emmamac14 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow she sounds very possesive,I'd have a serious talk to her and tell her if she doesn't let you go out once in a while,you will escape and never return!!!!Tell her she will end up losing you for good.
2006-08-18 07:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by bobcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋