how do i tell my gf's mother that i love her daughter?

Question

she's a drop dead gorgeous blonde hair blue eyed gal her eyes are rather unique with a brown dot in them. she looks at me for who i am rather than the physique i represent. but her mother doesn't want us together how do i tell her mom that i love her and wanna be with her? how do i get her mother to approve of us being together?

Answer 1

Talk to her alone, maybe take her to lunch or something. Tell her how you feel, what her daughter means to you. Tell her how you plan to take care of her or what goals you have in life, as that may be one of the questions. A lot of women don't think anyone is good enough for their little girl. Don't try to act like something you're not and don't make a confrontation out of it. She should leave the conversation with an understanding of your feelings and a feeling that you respect her place in her daughter's life. Good luck.

Answer 2

I am going through the same thing. My bf dont know how to tell my mom that he truely loves me. She does not approve. We are not looking for her approval. We just want her to accept it. We dont know how to tell her. We plan on getting married and she dont even know we are dating. Its just something that you need to doscuss with both your gf and her mom. Its a relationship with you and your girlfriend not you your girlfriend and her mom. Just talk with her and tell her how you feel.

Answer 3

treat her mother with respect, and be very polite. just explain to her that you truly love her daughter, and would do anything for her, and would never hurt her, etc. just be yourself and try to be kind and gentle with her mother, who could be afraid to let go.

Answer 4

yeah, just tell her why you like her, that you RESPECT her, then tell her that you love her daughter- don't be to mushy b/c she might think your asking permission to marry her!

Answer 5

Just tell her!!