He doesn't know that i know this but what is the best idea for him to spend his time with me.
2006-08-18 06:32:47 · 33 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not have to try to keep him away from her , he should not want to see her if there is no feelings between them . No if they would happen to meet on the street and say hi how are you and how have yo been that is one thing but if you can't trust him not to see her then how are you ever going to trust him when he is not with you . Just some food for thought
2006-08-18 06:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by cammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that he "wants" to be with her instead of you? If yes, then your answer is obvious. If not, then it might be a good idea to meet the situation head on and "accidentally" run into his ex. This would allow you to see face-to-face what their true feelings are for each other instead of speculating!;) You also have to ask yourself,"Why does he want to remain in contact with her?". If he has not been in contact with her at all then it sounds like you are experiencing some normal insecurity issues that you need to resolve yourself.
2006-08-18 06:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by foxfire65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he keep it a secret from you? If so you need to be honest with him and let him know you know. Dont do the jealous thing though instead maybe go out for a drink or something altogether be the bigger person and be secure in your relationship.
2006-08-18 06:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really because if you act like a jealous girlfriend and demand that he doesn't see her, he will sneek and do it. So if he ask you if its ok to spend time with her tell him the truth and let him know that it will bother you. If he loves you he will not see her. And what reason does he have to spend time with her anyway.
2006-08-18 06:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Feelsolost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know for a fact the he wants to spend time wiht her? if so ask him why? or if you dont want to ask him go on a small vacation for the weekend just the 2 of u
2006-08-18 06:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's with you and not with her, so the fact that she is in town should not be an issue. If you fear he will cheat on your with her, then that's not a relationship you should want to waste your time on. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and decency and if you're insecure in your relationship then maybe it is time to move on.
2006-08-18 06:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by gupidcap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you trying to keep them apart and the question is do he want to spend time with his ex if so he'll find away dear just don't worry about it you can't hold on to something if it wants to be free
2006-08-18 06:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are going to hook up -- then they will. Why sweat an old flame. You can't make him do anything he doesn't want to do. What someone does in the dark shall come to light -- and you know you could be overreacting for nothing.
2006-08-18 06:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just stick your head up his but and follow him every where he goes. Are you really that insecure, Or is he just that big a dog? I always thought that relationships were supposed be based on trust. Wazzup really?
2006-08-18 06:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by fnfordlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING. If you can't keep him away from her by not doing a thing, then he does not deserve you and his feelings about you are not true. Do not waste your time with a guy who isn't all about you.
2006-08-18 06:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋