In my family is me, my mom, dad, and my younger sister who's six. Her role in our family is the perfect little girl (princess) that never does anything wrong. In real life she's the wicked step-sister. She'll lie straight up to my parents and get away with it. The only reasons why she will lie is because she did something wrong, or she just wants me to get in trouble. I wish she would lay off and give me some of my OWN space. I can't escape her. She's even aloud to enter my room on any occasion even if I'm not there at the time. I get sooo depressed because of this. Seriously, I will do NOTHING wrong and somehow end up in trouble! For no reason at all. I've talked to my mom and dad about this but they give me the stupid speach "you're older and should know better!" I tell them Yes, I know. Then, I'll tell them that there's more to the story, but they say we don't wanna hear it! I've talked to my sister many times but she just smiles and says TOO BAD! I need an answer to my problems!
2006-08-18 06:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by magendazzler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wat u need to do is wait untill u can absolutly prove with no doubt that ur sister is evil, or watever. u might even need to create some sort of "trap" so that she does something wrong and u can show ur parents. maybe u could videotape it happening. but they might think that u and ur sister were playing some game.... yep.
2006-08-18 06:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by mitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have oyur own private space period where you have a key to the lock and so do your parents. Do not cut the 6 year old anykind of a break otherwise you are condoning her behavior too. Totally remove yourself from contact with the 6 year old and make sure there is no possible way she can pin anything on you. When your parents ask why you won't have nothing to to with her, tell them. Tell them it is the only way for you not to get blamed or in touble for her lies. It's not fair to you in any way, shape, or form, and I feel the parents in this situation are being lazy with her for whatever reason. Your 6 year old sister is in dire need of regular and consistent discipline.
2006-08-22 10:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I say just cool down a little bit. Things will get better with time. When you're a teenager, you always think that the smallest thing is the end of the world... it isn't. It's not that I don't sympathize with you... I'm the oldest of 3 but really it's all part of growing up.
2006-08-18 13:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by In the light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you may never get over the" your older so you should know better" bs. I would suggest that you talk to your parents about having a rule where she is not aloud into your room unless you grant her permission. this could at least give you an escape.
2006-08-18 13:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to your parents about entering your room when your not there...........that invading your privacy.......
She's the baby........and she is gonna get away with more and you're gonna be the one who ends up in trouble.......Can you lock your bedroom door when you leave the house that way maybe she can't get in......if there is anything in there you don't won't her to see put it up somewhere , where you know she won't find it.....like a diary or something......i would either lock my door or just tell your parents that is your space & you don't won't her in there.........period.........
she has her own room and space she needs to stay in there....i hope this helps you out a little bit....Good Luck with the Lil Evil Princess..............
2006-08-18 13:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of having siblings BUT BUT BUT you need to impress upon your parents your right and need for your own private space. You need to tell them it isn't right for them to allow her into YOUR private sanctuary whether you are there or not. You need to get a lock put on your door (one with a key, so you can lock it when you aren't there) and keep her out. You have the RIGHT to have privacy.
2006-08-18 13:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember sis she is only six and i bet she is spoiled also that's there baby girl. I know you gets frustrated with her and your parents for not punishing her for her wronginess. Sit down and try to explain yourself fully to them about your sista and hope they will do something and it all works out well for you and her. Younger sista can be a pain in the neck just love her she's only six.
2006-08-18 13:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only six ...Give her a break she will outgrow her child ways..but you have to be the bigger sister and act like one...One day you will be best of freinds and look back and laugh at this time...I am serious..............Ask your parents if they could please make her stay out of your room especially when you aren't there...You have a right to some privacy
2006-08-18 13:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a part of having siblings.
2006-08-18 13:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋