guys how do u take care of ur wife when she is pregnant?

Question

is it tough for u?

Answer 1

Before you think, do or say anything: remind yourself it's only nine months and she's doing all the work making your child. Think about her body's doing the metabolic equivalent of running a marathon every two weeks during the last trimester and every day she's got the hormone dose of a woman on her worst period.

Four practical things:

(1) Put the seat down, (dry); even if you have to tie a cinderblock to it- she's going to be peeing it seems like every five minutes. Her body doesn't have room for internal organs, a baby, and more than a couple of teaspoons of pee. Get over it.

(2) Rub her feet; now more than ever- if you haven't been before: START. Her circulation is shot and she's tottering aound carrying one third more weight on those slim ankles and feet than only a few months ago. One good long foot rub is better than all the "I love you's" you've given her to date.

(3) If you don't see how beautiful she is carrying your baby, look again. Then tell her so. Often. She feels like a beached whale; believe me when I say there are NO funny jokes about her size. If a large object should fall from the sky and put you in a coma, do not even then dare to dream about making jokes about how she looks.

(4) And in the same vein, for a while, she's going to want sex; step up to the plate for two reasons: she wants you to (and, no, you're not that well endowed to hurt the baby), second, it'll be a long while once that phase is over before she'll want to again.

Oh, and one more thing- for some odd reason, everyone you meet seems to think it's okay to feel her belly; be the man, and say no; save her the feeling of being public property or having to say no and feeling ungracious.

Answer 2

A pregnant woman undergoes a lot of stress, mood swings, temper tantrums, feelings of being so very unwell....this is the time when u need to be more loving and caring than ever before. The very fact that u have asked this question shows how much u r concerned. :)
Well, never ever lose your temper even if she sounds unreasonable at times.... give in to whatever she demands..u can have yr revenge later!!!!! Listen to soft, soothing music together-good for her and the baby. Feed her with whatever she desires, try to get it for her at whatever hour she wants it-pregnant women hv these cravings u know (watch indian film salaam namaste-you'll know the women side of the story!). Go out to children parks, watch children playing..its a kind of a therapy for prgnant women. Spend a lot of time together. Ask neighbours, near and dear ones to help her when u r not there.....see that she takes her medicenes on time.....
ask the forum/her gynaec if u want to know anything in particular... and most of all, show her how happy you are, its the most wonderful time of your life to be able to share her pregnant world!

Answer 3

Her hormones are going to be out of whack for the next year basically so keep that in mind when she's not acting her usual way. Basically, help your wife out. If she needs you to cook or clean or run errands or whatever, help her out as much as you can. Just be there for her because she's going to need lots of love and support.

Answer 4

congrats dear for d baby.its really feels gud wen husbands take care of their wifes wen dey r pregnant.well i think www.babyfit.com will help u.its a beautiful site.i hope ur wife has a safe pregnanacy...gud luck!!!

Answer 5

Agree with watever she says, buy her whatever she wants, feed her whenever she asks, and tell her daily she is beautiful and loved! Congratulations and Good luck!

Answer 6

better ask the women that question.hormones will rule her and you for nine months and than some.do the best you can,the rewards are great.