My boyfriend and I are together for about half a year and as we live in different countries, we don't see each other very often. by now I feel really strong about him, he's a great person and I would love to spend more time with him. I have an opportunity to move where he lives. Now he's been already married and has got a 6 years old son. I would like to get more serious, but don't want to scare him and I'm not sure if he's ready for new commitments. I know I should ask him, but before I do, are there any signs which could tell me?
2006-08-18 06:21:42 · 12 answers · asked by E-Fox 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well instead of beating around the bush or trying to figger out if he's giving you any kind of clues of what step to take in ya'lls relationship, i would just ask him..........i'm not saying put him on a spot.........but just tell him there is something you need to discuss with him about ya'll relationship.......
Is he divorced?
Are you ok with that fact that he has a child now?
My best advice to you is...........Talk to him !!!!!!!!!!! and be honest with him.............
2006-08-18 06:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to build the relationship a little bit more. When you know, he'll know. Don't freak out, just ask him to move where he lives (if you really love him and are willing to take that chance). And always remember, if it doesn't work out, there are other fish in the sea.
2006-08-18 06:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tu Amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the guy will be seriuos with you. He is married with a son too!!! THe only thing that he maybe serious with is to have sex with you just to satisfy his lust. stop dreaming, he is just using you. Wake up. There lot of great guys out there for you. Don't waste your life for a guy that can't promise you anything but empty promise.
2006-08-18 06:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ho boy. talk to him. what happened to the mother of his child? you have to decide whether or not hes ready for another woman. if she was in like a car crash or something, do you think hes over it? will he be paranoid? see what he thinks of this matter, just make sure that you don't endanger a friendship in the progress of talking in case he doesn't want what you want.
2006-08-18 06:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sandman23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you have dated for months. If he was serious, you would know it by know. When men found someone they think may be the one they do not usually wait too long to let them know they want her on their team!!
2006-08-18 06:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u go out with somone for a long time you get to know them completly different than you would if you were just his m8t,try asking him and agree with each other and it will always work out.dont try your self coz it can couse proplems..... good luck hun!!!!!
2006-08-18 06:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by punky_ass (coolporschechick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always try to talk to him but guys have a hard time opening up! Or you can sit back and see what he does! In that i mean.....Actions speak louder then words!!
2006-08-18 06:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound he is not seriouse, i think you just tell him that yu are going to visit him, or some thing like that,
you ask him
2006-08-18 06:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by tours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do me a favor don't chase the man.HAVE the man chase you OK? IF he dont , wait 4 another one your worth it. good luck
2006-08-18 06:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
mention that you wish you could see him more often and see how he responds...I really can't think of anything else, sry!
2006-08-18 06:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋