PLEASE NO ANGER BITTER WOMEN NEED REPLY TO THIS
im 23 and i love my relationship but sometimes i feel the urges to explore my youth.(im not talking about cheating on my g/f) ive come up with the notion that it is ok for me to have unristricted (protected) sex freely until i marry. is this a bad way to think? i do look forward to the family life and i know i can be loving and completely faithful when married.
2006-08-18 06:00:51 · 35 answers · asked by egoodkis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL NO!!!! U COULDN'T B WITH ME CAUSE YO _SS WOULD B OUT... IT WOULD B ME AND ONLY ME.... I WOULD WEAR U OUT , U WOULDN'T WANT ANOTHER WOMAN. U NEED 2B ON LOCK DOWN CAUSE U CANT B TRUSTED
2006-08-18 06:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This way of thinking is very common these days. Sex and love are very related...it's a celebration of love but if you're a lustful guy, looking to get off, then sleeping w/ multiple partners, is something that you need to get out of your system before ever even thinking of marriage. If you're in a committed relationship, you need to let your partner know about your "urges." She deserves to be informed. But use protection when sleeping around! You and your future wife will be glad if you're smart now! Neither of you will appreciate std's!
2006-08-18 06:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by littleredridinghood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you want to have sex with other women then you need to break up with your girlfriend. Cheating is cheating whether you or married or not. It sounds like you have a lot of conflicted feelings that you need to address. I don't think your girlfriend would like the idea of an open relationship so you need to way the pros and cons before taking action.
2006-08-18 06:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by materialgrlunlimtd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let's see if I understand you. You love your gf. You aren't talking about cheating on her. You want to have unrestricted protected sex freely until you marry?
What exactly do you think love means? What exactly do you consider cheating? How would you feel if your gf wants to have sex with anyone she wants to while professing to love you?
You are far to immature to be in any kind of relationship and you don't have the slightest concept of commitment or fidelity. Please have the decency to break up with your gf now and allow her the opportunity to find a kind and loving man to share her life with.
2006-08-18 06:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think, and are sure it will ONLY.. be..UNTIL.. you are married.. Then I guess it's not wrong.. I know a lot of people will not agree with me. I think that all the answers are within yourself. If you don't feel guilty about this and are doing it safe (without hurting your partner). Let it rip!!. I think maybe you feel there is something not right about it..and you are looking for acceptance. Think about what you are doing and if you see nothing wrong with it...and it makes you happy..then there is your answer. Who can judge you....it's your life and at the end... only you will pay the consequences of your actions.
2006-08-18 06:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to keep your current relationship, then you can't have sex freely. You'll emotionally devastate your current g/f even if you bring up the subject. If you want to have indiscriminate sex while you're single, that's your business, but if you're in any type of committed relationship (marriage or otherwise), forget it. The very fact that you're asking the questions indicates to me that you're not ready for a real relationship right now.
2006-08-18 06:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by SuzeY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just be careful with who you sleep with. From what I've heard 1 in 4 people have an STD. Condoms can break and don't stop all STD's. If you want to have sex with her go right ahead. But I'd think about getting her tested.
NOTHING good can come out of sleeping around.
2006-08-18 06:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not cheat (do it when you are not committed to anyone) and if you do not hurt anyone (make sure that your sex-partner knows that you're just having fun and use a condom) yes, it is OK. Have fun! But if you "love your relationship" that's because you have a relationship with someone, then if you have sex with someone else you are cheating. Does your girlfriend know about this? I doubt it...
2006-08-18 06:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Filipe F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I understand your need to get out there & do your thing and there's nothing wrong with that...but, do you have a commitment to your girlfriend? You're YOUNG...you're only 23 - it's time for you to be out in the world sowing your wild oats as they say. You don't have to be tied down honey, you have plenty of time for that in the future...maybe you don't love your girlfriend as much as you think you do...cause seems to me, you feel like you're missing something..
2006-08-18 06:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only ok as long as your G/F agrees.... and if you are prepared for her to do the same thing. If it's something that would hurt her if she found out, then it's a damaging strategy. Remember that girls generally tend to see sex as a sacred act of love - it may not be that for you, but you need to respect her values if you want to keep her.
2006-08-18 06:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you should not cheat on your girlfriend and if you really loved her you would only want to be with her. Maybe you are not satisfied with your relationship and feel that there is better out there. I feel that you should communicate this with your girlfriend and decide to have a break or break up.
2006-08-18 06:35:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋