i need some help . . . i realy like him what should i do!?

Question

see him at the library everyday i sent him a note(anynmous)and told him to put it by my steps at my house and never did . . . wellp i wanna talk ta him and it seems when ever im there he always goes hes at the park right now(behind the library) . . . and i wanna know how to approach him and talk to him and what to talk about he likes to play football and im not really into football my brother plays i play volleyball . . . ohh and im like not really in shape . . . so can someone help me! PLEASE

i really like the last one . . . wellp on the note i left some clues kinda sayin it was me . . .

Answer 1

well if u send a note anynomously and tell him to put it at the steps at ur house chances are hes a lil freaked out.. its always strange to get an anynmous note and tell someone to go somewhere.. who cares about ur looks if ur a great person with a great personality you can get anyone you want.. keep ur chin up and dont be hesitant to go up and just talk to him.. ur only young once and whats the worse thing that can happen? he wont be interested and u just move on.. but somethin u should do is use that as an insentive to get in shape and work out.. so a couple years down the road he sees u and is like DANG i should have dated her.. ha ha.. good luck just go to talk to him!

i wish u the best in life

Answer 2

Hello, well the last part of your question kind of stuck me as you being a little insecure. I know for sure that insecurity sometimes comes off bad in the eyes of guys.
Also, since you wrote the letter anonymously maybe he though it was a joke or maybe he got 'freaked'-out.
My best advice for you to do is go with one of your friends and watch him play football. Comment on a catch or say good job or whatever... maybe he'll come talk to you. If he doesnt after the game just say good job (really casually). Then maybe the next time you catch him playing again do the same but invite him for a soda or to hang out... CASUALLY... dont go all nerdy and like a little girl that might be a turn-off! anyway, GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

First u have to make him believe that u really want him u must look at him and smile but not a lot cuz he will think that u r stupid u must also have a mysterious look!He won't do anything but don't mind the other day don't look at him at all don't even talk to him actually u must seem like u don't give a sheet about him...do it 4 some time and then see the results Good luck!!!

Answer 4

ok. anonymous notes are simply stupid.

stop scaring the poor guy, go directly to him, and tell him how you feel. make allowances for some disappointment. but going to him directly can save a lot of trouble.

and it doesnt matter if you dont know football. there are other avenues to talk about. i'm sure if you just talk to him a while, you'll find some common interests that you can just go explore.

get in shape if you want to. it may or may not matter to some people, but if you are having self esteem problems because of it, you try doing some exercises or something. but it may not matter.

Answer 5

Just approach him and let him know you like him and see his reaction but be willing to accept rejection because that is a part of life.

Your feelings might get hurt but at least you can have a restful mind knowing you don't have a chance and now don't have to wonder if you do.

Always remember, there is somebody out there for everybody and sometimes we win some and we lose some, I hope this time your a winner but if not, don't be a sorry loser and continue to look for someone who is looking for you.

Answer 6

honey the first key to anything is u gotta look hot doesnt matter if ur in shape or not round is a shape too :) ...so get those workout shoes ...u could jog on the field he plays football...and completely ignore him....
just bang into him occasionally ..and oh yes use a perfume thats unique to everytime u even walk past him...gucci rush works for me.

Answer 7

Just start talking about video games or something. Almost every guy that I've ever talked about loves games. Once you get a converstation started, then ask him to come over and play one or ask him to go out sometime.

Answer 8

its simple ,if you dont tell him you like him he will never know and youll never find out if he likes you back. Theres no promise he feels the same way but if you want to find out go up to him and talk to him . You dont have to blurt out that you have a crush on him but maybe invite him to go see a movie or any activity. if he says yes he prolly likes you too .

Answer 9

tell him, as simplly as hello, that you like him; ignore him for a week and if no answer from him, tell him again: "I still like you", followed by the same ignorance. If no answer again, don't try again. He's just not interested. He might be already involved in a relation. Good luck!

Answer 10

you should jus approch him just like u have anyone else, start small talk conversation and be friendly dont show ur feelings right away cuz datll scare some guys off.