2006-08-18 05:49:51 · 35 answers · asked by Innocence 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is somehow natural. it's something all men have. you should give him a special feeling, let him belive he is different, cause you are not someone regular to him. all he need is a security and after that you will see how felexible he becomes.
2006-08-18 09:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mehdi ((sade del)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure about himself and/or your relationship. How often do you talk to your ex-boyfriend? In what context? Remember, an ex- is only an ex- until the relationship rekindles... How would you feel if you found out he was talking to his ex- regularly? Are you secure enough in yourself and your relationship with him that it would not bother you? Now the problem may be all in him, but you apparently will have to decide whether you need to modify your current relationship or your relationship with your ex- because the fact you are maintaining both appears to be a problem and the only way to solve it is to change one or the other. Your call which one... which is more important to yoy - your relationship with your current or with your ex-?
2006-08-18 05:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, honey if you have to ask that question you have to be the dumpest person in the world. It is only natural for a guy or girl to react the way your man is. He knows that you two had feelings for each other and that you were together so yes he is going to be jealous and if you say that you do not feel that way when he talks to his ex you are in denial.
2006-08-18 05:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he has every right to. That guy is an ex for a reason. If you care about your boyfriend and know that it bothers him, you should stop talking to your ex. You're not showing much respect for his feelings.
2006-08-18 05:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings can always come back, and if you and your ex's relationship ended good enough that you can talk now, im sure your feelings could come back for him. So I say, obvously your new bf cares about losing you, so if you care about him i think you should tell the ex to get lost and stay with your new bf. Unless you dont wanna be with the new guy. You kinda gotta decide its not fair for your bf.
2006-08-18 05:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by xxxxxracheyxxxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason you get jealous and angry when he talks to his ex-girlfriends. Maybe he is insecure. Why not ask him and then maybe stop talking to your ex-boyfriend.
2006-08-18 05:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, It is obvious! Put yourself in that position and think. You have to be careful here. Make sure you make him understand U love him and not Ur ex, and U chose him over X, because He's better. Go slowly, and avoid ur x until U have built trust b/w you two. Good Luck!
2006-08-18 05:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by A_Lankan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried asking your husband? would be the first one I'd try to get the answer from.
Would you be jealous if he kept in touch with an ex girlfriend? Think about it, your married to him, you left your past behind as far as old relationships. Talk to your husband, not your ex.........
2006-08-18 05:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by thatslife59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you get jealous if he was talking to his ex girlfriend. Think about it.
2006-08-18 06:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by teek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think for a while: You are talking to a guy who use to be with you. Would you like your bf to talk to his ex while he is dating you?
Also remember the saying, where there were fire, are ashes, or something like that.
2006-08-18 05:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by Carlos A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to talk to your ex for, you shouldnt be doing that he probably things you still want him you need to choose either your man now or your ex or in the future your man now might dump you because you keep talking to your ex
2006-08-18 05:55:39 · answer #11 · answered by chanlen2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋