hey all!! i've been looking for the perfect girl, and everywhere i look (in the mall etc, i can't find anyone that blows me away and if i do see one they are much older than me like 20... and i'm just wondering if my standards are too high? it only seems im attracted to girls that work in abercrombie and fitch and so on. And yes i've had many other girlfriends and they all looked great.. i'm just having a problem finding someone new.
2006-08-18 05:46:30 · 14 answers · asked by djm12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just make sure your standards are realistic, then no matter how long it takes, go for it and be sure you'll finde her. when the time comes you'll know it
2006-08-18 10:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mehdi ((sade del)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you do have the standard bar set a little high. If I were you I would stop focusing on the exterior and start focusing on the interior. Sometimes what is on the out side is far ugly then what is on the inside. Try dating girls that you normally wouldn't date. This will open your horizons.
2006-08-18 12:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt base an relationship off looks.. every time ive dated an abercrombie girl.. (and yes i actually dated an abercrombie model) it always ends up being bad.. she cheats on me or blah blah.. try to find a girl with a great personality that is cute.. dont judge it off looks.. i guarentee ull last longer with a girl thats not an "abercrombie girl" granted we all know they are hotter.. mabey ur standerds are set to high..... but i would look else where their not the greatest catch... good luck and i wish u the best
2006-08-18 12:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Juggernaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you can't find anybody is because you are looking for them...Let them come to you...trust me!!! I remember when I was looking for a bf, I couldn't find one because I was looking for him....But once I decided to chill, he found me...Every standard I had, he met...Boy, you are attracted to girls who work in retail....Ha...their the worse ones...I use to work in retail...Plenty of guys hit on me...Trust if you start talking to one of those girls u met in the store, your just gonna be another number to them
2006-08-18 12:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by DivaStats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you consider 20 much too old for you, then you're obviously not old enough to date, you probably don't even know what blow me away is. you're supposed to judge the person for their personality, I'm sure the ones that blows you away are too good for you anyway.
2006-08-18 12:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your standards are too high, you're just shallow! Or maybe you're not even that good looking yourself, so you tell yourself you're picky to help you cope with knowing no one wants to hook up with you.
2006-08-18 12:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the right one comes along you will know it. don't go looking for her. and you never no you dream girl might not come in a barbie doll box. Try looking outside who you would normaly date you never no
2006-08-18 12:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by ms01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your standards are TOO high.
2006-08-18 12:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find a slumpbuster. hook up with an ugly one to break your spell of bad luck
2006-08-18 12:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep searching and maybe look at people personalities instead of looks
2006-08-18 12:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ambsz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋