Is it possible to love again after a bad experience?

Answer 1

yes why not. the power of forgeting things is a gift. be sure about one thing, the opposit part of your bad experience will make a new life, so why should you ruin your life, make a new one something better. just don't make the same mistakes.

Answer 2

yes why not but first u must forget the first one
tried his regression file for the second time,
but this time with just sound and my eyes closed,
and it worked better than the first time.
I tried to concentrated on me and my ex, but that's hard,
because Finkelstein wants me to focus on other things,
so I first saw the other part of the movie until he showed up.
The thing is that it didn't feel like a past life experience,
I was just watching things happen, it didn't effect me emotionally,
except for the last part.

It's a hot sunny day and I'm leaning against a well
in the middle of a busy market square.
When I meditate or go back in time I always observe,
I never talk to anyone, I'm never involved with other people.
Same thing this time.
I see myself, I see the people.
I'm young, perhaps 14 or 15 years old, blonde and male.
I'm wearing a wide white shirt which is actually too large for me,
and brown leather -but very primitive- shoes,
and I carry a basket on my back.
The main colors are brown and white.
The houses look medieval and German,
when I ask for a date I get 1524 but it turns later into 1224,
so I don't know what to think about that.

It's hot very hot and I'm just sitting there and watching the scene.
I try to look what's in my basket, but I can't fgure in out.
A lady walks by, she must be a noble woman, all dressed in green,
she smiles friendly to me, something I didn't expect.

Answer 3

I had a very bad experience 7 years ago, and now I have been happily married for 5 years and both me and my wife can´t complain, it has been a dream of a relationship, so i guess i would have to say that yes, it is possible and you would be surprised on what love can make to a person (when you give it to the right one, of course)

Answer 4

Yes it is. What you have to do though is work through your "stuff". I mean that you need to review what happened in the relationship, your part and their part in the break-up, be honest. What could you have done better? A longer time to get to know them? Maybe a better choice in a person altogether? Once you figure these things out, you will make a better choice next time.

Relationships aren't to rush into, take your time, get to know them as a "friend" first. If that relationship works, then move to the next level, more than friends. If you are the type that hops in the sack and gets emotionally attached right away, rethink that. It is not good.

Give yourself time to heal, reflect, rethink and grow. Don't go to bars or other places where the wrong people hang out. Respect yourself and you will be respected. Good luck!

Answer 5

It is definately possible...how long it'll happen depends on the person though. Losing someone you really love and care about can be a really hard thing to deal with, and it's normal to need to grieve for a period of time. And for many , once they've learned how to deal with the grief in a way that allows them to function in everyday life, loving someone again becomes easier.
Everyone's experience of losing and re-gaining love is different, and don't feel the need to compare your experiences to others...your experiences are yours, not anyone elses.

Answer 6

Absolutely. Each bad experience helps us to refine our search for the right person. Don't allow a bad experience to have any more power than it already has. Remember the new is always better than the old and you are now armed with more information about what you don't want and what you will not put up with in a relationship.

Tend to your wounds, certainly - but look ahead to better days. Your life is what you make it - and you make it with your thoughts. Pick good ones!

Peace!

Answer 7

yes it's possible, but after the bad experience, take some time to think about why was it a bad experience, before you love again, so you don't make the same mistake.

Answer 8

I was also emotinally abused by an alcoholic husband for 27 years. I finally decided that life was too short to be that miserable and I left him and filed for divorce. I doubted my decision several times but held on to the hope that my life would get better. I waited 2 years before starting to date again. I dated some real losers but I've finally found a man that I honestly feel I love far more than my ex-husband. Yes, you will find love again, it just takes time for the heart to heal.

Answer 9

I went through one of the worse experiences you can go through. I had lost all trust in men. I got hired at this new place & met a new guy that has without a doubt renewed my trust. I believe in love again. Love has a way of doing that to you when you're not looking for it to happen. I never thought I would feel on air again or feel this amazing feeling again. Trust me,it will come to you again ! God bless & good luck ! It will be when & where you least expect it !

Answer 10

Oh yes! It depends on what experience, but not too often, only matter is with time.. it takes time to heal completely or eventually, go reboucing! It does help you heal your pain more quicker. Even though, it is okay to cry it out but it is not okay to feel sorry for yourself forever.

Other hand, some people have loved deepth once in thier life but could love again just in different way.

Answer 11

Only if you find the right person. Sometimes people are just picky and you wont ever find the right person to love, alot of that is associated with fear, so dont be scared, go out there and meet some people, you wont ever meet anyone unless you do, and you cant fall in love unless you meet someone. Oh and that fear of a bad experience will always linger, try not to let it consume you, if it does your in for a very bumpy ride.