2006-08-18 05:41:49 · 31 answers · asked by Poetic Soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not as a primary issue. I find I am just not as sexually attracted to black women. It isn't that I am thinking, "She's black, so she isn't attractive," I just don't have that attraction there. There are also a lot of women who are white and I'm not attracted to.
2006-08-18 05:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO not for me, what does skin color have to do with love? But im not just looking for someone to be intimate with, or sexual, that last what on average an hour maybe 2, I look for someone thats fun to be with, someone exciting, caring, respectful to others, someone to pick me up if im down, someone who will be there in good times and bad. Love is someting that should be unconditional, And based on how loving, and careing the person is, not just to you but to other people too. If someone Is not respectful to others, there is a good chance sometime down the road they will not respect you either. Choosing a life long partner Is not anything someone should jump into quickly, love and lust are 2 different things, and it don`t take to long to figure out if your in it for lust or love.
2006-08-18 05:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it shouldnt be but in our society is certanly is. If you are interested in someone of different ethnic origin you should consider the social implications , how your family and friends will react ect then decide if you are willing to deal with the predudice ect. If its true love it prolly wont matter to you what anyone says. However some people arent prepared to deal with the reality of the situation. A person shouldnt look exclusivly for someone of a different color for a partner though as this suggests a different kind of predjudice
2006-08-18 05:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I choose what is on the inside. What kind of person they are. If I am attracted to them and that is ususally based more on personality then colour of skin.
2006-08-18 05:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your families and your community. Sharing a common background and goals is so much more important that skin tone. In a perfect world it wouldn't make any differences at all, unfortunately we don't live in a perfect world.
2006-08-18 05:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy is intimacy people of all creed and colours get intimitate and unless you prefer a specific race as your choice, I don't see the difference.
We all are created with the tools to use so I don't see what the problem would be it all depends on your preference.
2006-08-18 05:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! My boyfriend is white and I am black. We don't have an issue regarding skin colour at all!
2006-08-18 05:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be kinda militant about this issue when i was younger. I thought Blacks should date Blacks, Whites should date Whites etc. As I've grown older though, I realize that love...real love is hard as hell to find and shouldn't be rejected because of skin color. I must admit though, I still have a problem with people who date exclusively outside of their race. It speaks of self hatred if you ask me.
2006-08-18 05:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to me...
maybe not to her...
however, it seems to be with lots in my region of the US (I noticed the "colour" spelling)...
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When it is common knowledge that you 2 are a couple then
there can be added peer pressure...
I'm already an outcast... so I don't notice any peer pressure difference....
If this is her first(second, third, etc.) exposure to this peer pressure....
well, they may not like it and listen to it... ...and do things to cause it to stop affecting them - like leave you!
I attempt to prepare her to be suprised at the actions of those around us... ...turns out that I'm not to good at this.
2006-08-18 06:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really I guess it would have to do with someones preference. What a person finds pleasing to the sight.
2006-08-18 05:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by carmen d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋